Psycho-Babble Medication Thread 40996

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Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?

Posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 0:21:36

A while back I posted that I was let go at my job. That was rough and a real blow to the self-esteem. I worked for the state and have 18 years in, so really want to get in my 20 for retirement purposes.

Since having no job I have felt like a crummy worm that nobody wants, and it is hard as hell for me to feel confident about going to an interview.

I have an interview for a state job tomorrow (Thursday) at 2:00 Central Time. That would be 3:00 in Boston, and noon (I think) in LosAngeles.

I AM TOTALLY ANXIOUS! MY ANXIETY CUP RUNNETH OVER!!

If ya'll could say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it. I am praying that (well, first God's will be done), that I can think clearly, speak coherently, and don't come off looking like an idiot.

Since I've gained weight (groan) very few of my clothes fit, so I spent tonight rummaging around for the really loose ones. They will just have to do. Also it is like 102 degrees F here, and I am one big Effexor-sweat ball by the time I find a parking place downtown and waddle my way to the building. So I will go early and try to cool down. I may have to take a fan with me. ("Excuse me, sir, is there a plug nearby for my fan?")

GUYS DON'T READ THIS PARAGRAPH. Also I have hot flashes when I get stressed, and SURPRISE started my period tonight after not having one for months! That means really horrible cramps. I have vicodin, but it makes me pretty woozy. Happier than usual, though; I'm sure they would appreciate my slurred "witticisms" during the interview.

Oh, well. Please pray (or do what you do) for me. I will really appreciate it.

Many thanks,
Shar

 

Re: Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?

Posted by Bunny Goldberg on July 20, 2000, at 1:55:44

In reply to Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 0:21:36

> A while back I posted that I was let go at my job. That was rough and a real blow to the self-esteem. I worked for the state and have 18 years in, so really want to get in my 20 for retirement purposes.
>
> Since having no job I have felt like a crummy worm that nobody wants, and it is hard as hell for me to feel confident about going to an interview.
>
> I have an interview for a state job tomorrow (Thursday) at 2:00 Central Time. That would be 3:00 in Boston, and noon (I think) in LosAngeles.
>
> I AM TOTALLY ANXIOUS! MY ANXIETY CUP RUNNETH OVER!!
>
> If ya'll could say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it. I am praying that (well, first God's will be done), that I can think clearly, speak coherently, and don't come off looking like an idiot.
>
> Since I've gained weight (groan) very few of my clothes fit, so I spent tonight rummaging around for the really loose ones. They will just have to do. Also it is like 102 degrees F here, and I am one big Effexor-sweat ball by the time I find a parking place downtown and waddle my way to the building. So I will go early and try to cool down. I may have to take a fan with me. ("Excuse me, sir, is there a plug nearby for my fan?")
>
> GUYS DON'T READ THIS PARAGRAPH. Also I have hot flashes when I get stressed, and SURPRISE started my period tonight after not having one for months! That means really horrible cramps. I have vicodin, but it makes me pretty woozy. Happier than usual, though; I'm sure they would appreciate my slurred "witticisms" during the interview.
>
> Oh, well. Please pray (or do what you do) for me. I will really appreciate it.
>
> Many thanks,
> Shar

Shar, When I read your msg. I couldn't believe it. It sounded just like me. I went thru the same experience - fired and lost my self confidence and self esteem was in the toliet! I finally got a job this past March and guess what - they love me and I love them. I now realize there was nothing wrong with me - I was just letting other people make me feel bad. You'll do great. Just take 10 deep breaths and keep telling yourself that you'll do great before you go in for the interveiw. Act confident even if you don't feel it. I had to laugh about the sweating. One of the interviews I went on last summer I dripped sweat from the head down all through the interview - boy was I embarrassed. I also gained a lot of weight too. I know just how you feel. You've just got to keep talking to yourself to get your self esteem back. Good luck and let me know how you do. Bunny.

 

Re: Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?

Posted by JudithC on July 20, 2000, at 5:14:46

In reply to Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 0:21:36

> A while back I posted that I was let go at my job. That was rough and a real blow to the self-esteem. I worked for the state and have 18 years in, so really want to get in my 20 for retirement purposes.
>
> Since having no job I have felt like a crummy worm that nobody wants, and it is hard as hell for me to feel confident about going to an interview.
>
> I have an interview for a state job tomorrow (Thursday) at 2:00 Central Time. That would be 3:00 in Boston, and noon (I think) in LosAngeles.
>
> I AM TOTALLY ANXIOUS! MY ANXIETY CUP RUNNETH OVER!!
>
> If ya'll could say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it. I am praying that (well, first God's will be done), that I can think clearly, speak coherently, and don't come off looking like an idiot.
>
> Since I've gained weight (groan) very few of my clothes fit, so I spent tonight rummaging around for the really loose ones. They will just have to do. Also it is like 102 degrees F here, and I am one big Effexor-sweat ball by the time I find a parking place downtown and waddle my way to the building. So I will go early and try to cool down. I may have to take a fan with me. ("Excuse me, sir, is there a plug nearby for my fan?")
>
> GUYS DON'T READ THIS PARAGRAPH. Also I have hot flashes when I get stressed, and SURPRISE started my period tonight after not having one for months! That means really horrible cramps. I have vicodin, but it makes me pretty woozy. Happier than usual, though; I'm sure they would appreciate my slurred "witticisms" during the interview.
>
> Oh, well. Please pray (or do what you do) for me. I will really appreciate it.
>
> Many thanks,
> Shar

How can anyone with your wit and sense of humor not ace this interview today!!!?!

Shar,I have offered up a major (no little prayers in my book!) and will continue to pray for you today so please post later and let us know your news.

JudithC

 

Re:Sweet Person has Job Interview--Prayers

Posted by Cam W. on July 20, 2000, at 7:16:45

In reply to Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 0:21:36

Shar - That's 1:00pm Alberta time, today. Right after the lunch rush. I'll be thinking of you and sending you relaxing vibes. I'll be looking at a relaxing picture of wildflowers that is hanging in the back room. If you get nervous, you'll be able to see it, too.

> GUYS DON'T READ THIS PARAGRAPH.
This is like saying "Don't touch the red button" or "Don't look!" Sorry Shar, not reading this can't be done 8^) While you're at it, have a couple of drinks with the Vicodan. You won't get the job, but you'll give the interviewer a story he'll/she'll be able to tell at Thanksgiving for years to come. Relax, you'll do just fine (easy to say on my end).

I'll be thinking of you - Cam

 

Re: Job Interview » shar

Posted by Oddzilla on July 20, 2000, at 7:48:40

In reply to Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 0:21:36

Shar-I'll be praying for you. You have a great sense of humour. O.

> A while back I posted that I was let go at my job. That was rough and a real blow to the self-esteem. I worked for the state and have 18 years in, so really want to get in my 20 for retirement purposes.
>
> Since having no job I have felt like a crummy worm that nobody wants, and it is hard as hell for me to feel confident about going to an interview.
>
> I have an interview for a state job tomorrow (Thursday) at 2:00 Central Time. That would be 3:00 in Boston, and noon (I think) in LosAngeles.
>
> I AM TOTALLY ANXIOUS! MY ANXIETY CUP RUNNETH OVER!!
>
> If ya'll could say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it. I am praying that (well, first God's will be done), that I can think clearly, speak coherently, and don't come off looking like an idiot.
>
> Since I've gained weight (groan) very few of my clothes fit, so I spent tonight rummaging around for the really loose ones. They will just have to do. Also it is like 102 degrees F here, and I am one big Effexor-sweat ball by the time I find a parking place downtown and waddle my way to the building. So I will go early and try to cool down. I may have to take a fan with me. ("Excuse me, sir, is there a plug nearby for my fan?")
>
> GUYS DON'T READ THIS PARAGRAPH. Also I have hot flashes when I get stressed, and SURPRISE started my period tonight after not having one for months! That means really horrible cramps. I have vicodin, but it makes me pretty woozy. Happier than usual, though; I'm sure they would appreciate my slurred "witticisms" during the interview.
>
> Oh, well. Please pray (or do what you do) for me. I will really appreciate it.
>
> Many thanks,
> Shar

 

Re: Nice person has Job Interview--Prayers Please?

Posted by Greg on July 20, 2000, at 7:49:04

In reply to Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 0:21:36

Shar,

You'll do great!!! Just be yourself and they'll love you! Just remember to take it one minute at a time if necessary and say the serenity prayer about a half dozen times before you go in! I'll be praying for you all day. My thoughts are with you hon.

Hugs,
Greg
>
> Since I've gained weight (groan) very few of my clothes fit, so I spent tonight rummaging around for the really loose ones. They will just have to do. Also it is like 102 degrees F here, and I am one big Effexor-sweat ball by the time I find a parking place downtown and waddle my way to the building. So I will go early and try to cool down. I may have to take a fan with me. ("Excuse me, sir, is there a plug nearby for my fan?")
>
> GUYS DON'T READ THIS PARAGRAPH. Also I have hot flashes when I get stressed, and SURPRISE started my period tonight after not having one for months! That means really horrible cramps. I have vicodin, but it makes me pretty woozy. Happier than usual, though; I'm sure they would appreciate my slurred "witticisms" during the interview.
>
> Oh, well. Please pray (or do what you do) for me. I will really appreciate it.
>
> Many thanks,
> Shar

 

Re: Hey shar, hope you see this...

Posted by CarolAnn on July 20, 2000, at 9:30:46

In reply to Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 0:21:36

Here's something that has worked for me in that type of situation:
Right now, stop thinking about anything that makes you feel insecure, and start imagining the person (or people) who will be interviewing you. BUT don't imagine the interviewer as having POWER, imagine that they are even more insecure then you are. Imagine the interviewer/s as some poor shmoe doing a boring job, having a depressing day, and feeling insecure about doing the interview, because making decisions is very difficult and unpleasant.
NOW, imagine going into the interview with the attitude that you are going be as sweet and friendly as can be, so you can brighten this poor interviewer's day. Don't worry about impressing anyone, concentrate on being the type of friendly(but not overly 'familiar') individual that you would want to work with if you were in the hiring position. I know this sounds hard, but it will help you stop worrying, if you think of the interviewer as someone who has even more problems then you do and who needs a little empathy. And, you never know it could even be true!
Best wishes and I am praying! CarolAnn

 

Thanks Everyone! I will update later on.

Posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 10:48:52

In reply to Re: Hey shar, hope you see this..., posted by CarolAnn on July 20, 2000, at 9:30:46

Thank you all for your good thoughts and great suggestions.

I have to admit Cam's idea is tempting and would really take the pressure off!

I can see it now: "God, aren't you people burning Up in here?! I'm sweating like a pig! I need some 'water.' I have my thermos right here. Anybody join me?

Ahhhh, that's better! And plug in my fan, will you, sweetie? You know, I think we all need to just relaxxxx a little more.

OK, you had some sort of question for me?"

Seriously, I signed on to see if anyone had seen my message, and I feel so very thankful for all of the input, ideas, and time you all took to respond. I will be remembering these messages today.

xoxo
Shar

 

Re: Nice person has Job Interview--Prayers Please?

Posted by tina on July 20, 2000, at 11:46:37

In reply to Re: Nice person has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by Greg on July 20, 2000, at 7:49:04

>Ditto to what Greg said Shar. You'll knock 'em dead. I will send all my good vibes and wishes your way.
Tina

Shar,
>
> You'll do great!!! Just be yourself and they'll love you! Just remember to take it one minute at a time if necessary and say the serenity prayer about a half dozen times before you go in! I'll be praying for you all day. My thoughts are with you hon.
>
> Hugs,
> Greg
> >
> > Since I've gained weight (groan) very few of my clothes fit, so I spent tonight rummaging around for the really loose ones. They will just have to do. Also it is like 102 degrees F here, and I am one big Effexor-sweat ball by the time I find a parking place downtown and waddle my way to the building. So I will go early and try to cool down. I may have to take a fan with me. ("Excuse me, sir, is there a plug nearby for my fan?")
> >
> > GUYS DON'T READ THIS PARAGRAPH. Also I have hot flashes when I get stressed, and SURPRISE started my period tonight after not having one for months! That means really horrible cramps. I have vicodin, but it makes me pretty woozy. Happier than usual, though; I'm sure they would appreciate my slurred "witticisms" during the interview.
> >
> > Oh, well. Please pray (or do what you do) for me. I will really appreciate it.
> >
> > Many thanks,
> > Shar

 

Re: Job Interview--Prayers Please? » shar

Posted by noa on July 20, 2000, at 12:46:59

In reply to Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by shar on July 20, 2000, at 0:21:36

Read your resume over to yourself, and any good letters of reference, to remind yourself of your skills and accomplishments, as being jobless can make you forget and lose touch with your competencies. Reading the resume helps because it is there in black and white, a strong statement to counter the negative inner voice.

Good Luck, Shar.

 

Re: Shar

Posted by tdaneen on July 20, 2000, at 15:41:12

In reply to Re: Crummy Worm has Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by Bunny Goldberg on July 20, 2000, at 1:55:44

Shar, you are way cool You will drive them nuts with your crazy hippie-chic ways. Beauty is inside, and you have the gift of expressing it! Up or down, Inside and Out!
You are here for one and all.

You have dignity and are girly all at the same time what a treat!

I wish you the best! We'll be here to celebrate or formulate your next course of action with you.

You are truly a Lady.

T.

 

Re: Job Interview--How did it go?

Posted by noa on July 20, 2000, at 18:03:06

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Prayers Please? » shar, posted by noa on July 20, 2000, at 12:46:59

Shar, how was it?

 

Re: Job Interview--Prayers Please?

Posted by kerryB on July 20, 2000, at 18:27:57

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Prayers Please? » shar, posted by noa on July 20, 2000, at 12:46:59

> Read your resume over to yourself, and any good letters of reference, to remind yourself of your skills and accomplishments, as being jobless can make you forget and lose touch with your competencies. Reading the resume helps because it is there in black and white, a strong statement to counter the negative inner voice.
>
> Good Luck, Shar.


Hi noa,
From your posts, you are smart and intelligent and you certainly have your head on your shoulders!!!! Go for it! You can accomplish anything you set your mind to and I agree with Shar, look at your resume and take note of all the things you can do or have done!!!!!
Good on you and I shall certainly pray for you and I will be thinking of you!!!!

Kerry

 

Re: Waiting Patiently (kind of) - Shar

Posted by Greg on July 20, 2000, at 18:42:16

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by kerryB on July 20, 2000, at 18:27:57

Shar,

You certainly know how to keep an audience on the edge of there seats! I really want to know how the interview went. Tell me, Tell me, Tell me, don't keep me in suspense.

 

Re: Job Interview--Prayers Please?

Posted by kerryB on July 20, 2000, at 18:49:34

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by kerryB on July 20, 2000, at 18:27:57

> > Read your resume over to yourself, and any good letters of reference, to remind yourself of your skills and accomplishments, as being jobless can make you forget and lose touch with your competencies. Reading the resume helps because it is there in black and white, a strong statement to counter the negative inner voice.
> >
> > Good Luck, Shar.
>
>
> Hi noa,
> From your posts, you are smart and intelligent and you certainly have your head on your shoulders!!!! Go for it! You can accomplish anything you set your mind to and I agree with Shar, look at your resume and take note of all the things you can do or have done!!!!!
> Good on you and I shall certainly pray for you and I will be thinking of you!!!!
>
> Kerry. ps, sorry I accidently wrote noa when I meant it to be to you Shar, and I meant I agree with noa about reading over your res. Don't let the weight thing bother you, I have also slammed it on since being on Zyprexa and I have to squeeze into my work clothes. I just wear a skirt with a long loose top over it, maybe try that. I do pray that all goes well for you, sorry about the name botch up, my mind has not yet returned to normal as yet. Stay with it and GOOD LUCK!!!!!

 

Re: Job Interview--Actually,

Posted by noa on July 20, 2000, at 19:51:41

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Prayers Please?, posted by kerryB on July 20, 2000, at 18:49:34

Actually, I ALSO had a job interview today. I wasn't sure I was going to post about it here, but the description of wearing loose clothes resonated for me, too.

I focused a lot of my nervous energy on being nervous about finding some clean clothes to wear that fit. I ended up with a loose fitting outfit (elastic waist skirt-aahh--and loose tunic overtop). It was supposed to be cool today, but it was HOT as HELL in my office, so I showed up at the interview a bit sweaty, oh well.

I can relate to the idea of being an effexor sweat bomb!!! I don't get that now, with the xr, but with the regular, I used to sweat buckets and buckets, and a lot of it from my head (there is no hiding the sweat rivers running down your face and making your damp hair stick to your forehead)!

Anyway, my interview went pretty well, though it isn't clear it will work out. But the woman said she would like to try to see if she can work something out.

I am so anxious and excited, but mostly anxious. It is so hard for me to calm down after interviews. I guess this is the kind of time when a drink seems to help calm people down, but I tend not to drink and don't want to be comatose in the am when it is time to get up (combo of meds + alcohol = not so good, I think).

I should maybe do some exercise. Maybe that would work.

Shar, I have been thinking about you all day. Hope it went well.

 

Re: Job Interview--Actually,

Posted by Cindy W on July 20, 2000, at 21:30:26

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Actually,, posted by Cindy W on July 20, 2000, at 21:28:53

> > Actually, I ALSO had a job interview today. I wasn't sure I was going to post about it here, but the description of wearing loose clothes resonated for me, too.
> >
> > I focused a lot of my nervous energy on being nervous about finding some clean clothes to wear that fit. I ended up with a loose fitting outfit (elastic waist skirt-aahh--and loose tunic overtop). It was supposed to be cool today, but it was HOT as HELL in my office, so I showed up at the interview a bit sweaty, oh well.
> >
> > I can relate to the idea of being an effexor sweat bomb!!! I don't get that now, with the xr, but with the regular, I used to sweat buckets and buckets, and a lot of it from my head (there is no hiding the sweat rivers running down your face and making your damp hair stick to your forehead)!
> >
> > Anyway, my interview went pretty well, though it isn't clear it will work out. But the woman said she would like to try to see if she can work something out.
> >
> > I am so anxious and excited, but mostly anxious. It is so hard for me to calm down after interviews. I guess this is the kind of time when a drink seems to help calm people down, but I tend not to drink and don't want to be comatose in the am when it is time to get up (combo of meds + alcohol = not so good, I think).
> >
> > I should maybe do some exercise. Maybe that would work.
> >
> > Shar, I have been thinking about you all day. Hope it went well.
>
> Noa, I'm so glad your interview went well! You deserve the best.
Shar, you're a wonderful lady with a great sense of humor. How did your interview go? Didn't see your post in time to let you know, when I have an interview or have to deal with authority figures, what works for me is imagining them on the toilet taking a dump (they're not so scary then).

 

To shar and noa

Posted by Rach on July 20, 2000, at 21:55:59

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Actually,, posted by noa on July 20, 2000, at 19:51:41

Hi gals,

I'm sitting here, sending you out positive vibes and best wishes. You are both lovely people, and the prospective companies would be better for hiring you. My fingers (and toes, and eyes!) are crossed for you both, although if your personalities come across in the interviews as they do here, you should have no probs.

Let us know how they go.
Hugs and confidence,
Rach

P.S. (If you haven't already been) Just remember to smile lots - a happy face {even if the insides are jelly} is hard to resist.

 

Interview was ok, job would be a nightmare.

Posted by shar on July 21, 2000, at 0:46:44

In reply to To shar and noa, posted by Rach on July 20, 2000, at 21:55:59

Thank you all so much for your kind words, nudges, and attempts to corrupt me.

After waiting 45 min. for the supervisor to get done with another interview, I got in. Turns out the guy she was interviewing had got the day wrong and showed up. So she took him, and cut in to my time to answer questions. It was a very rushed interview.

The job would have been way too intense (ex., people from the legislature and other agencies wanting to have information in 20 min. because they are about to make a speech). Not a good situation. The supv. said it is not unusual for them to spend all weekend working on a project, to have it end up on the shelf.

She said a lot of people felt like they were doing a half-assed job, and I know I would have a problem with that.

So, she bolted out the door to go to a meeting and I thought for awhile, and figured I just was not masochistic enough for that position. So, I left her a very nice note saying that I'm good at brush fires, but a steady diet of that kind of intensity would make it hard for me to be at my best.

Sigh. I really need a job, but I couldn't force myself to take that one. (well, it had not actually been offered)

Plus, she said there is a lot of negativity among staff due to the high intensity.

So--THANKS for your good thoughts and prayers. It was hot, but I had 45 min. to cool off.

xoxo
Shar

 

Re: Interview was ok, job would be a nightmare. » shar

Posted by Rach on July 21, 2000, at 6:09:12

In reply to Interview was ok, job would be a nightmare., posted by shar on July 21, 2000, at 0:46:44

Hi shar,
Glad the interview went well - even though you haven't come out of it with a job, at least you now can have the confidence knowing that you got through an interview postively. That should make the next one just that little bit easier.

Hugs,
Rach

 

Re: Job Interview--Actually,

Posted by ksvt on July 21, 2000, at 7:11:42

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Actually,, posted by noa on July 20, 2000, at 19:51:41

> Actually, I ALSO had a job interview today. I wasn't sure I was going to post about it here, but the description of wearing loose clothes resonated for me, too.
>
> I focused a lot of my nervous energy on being nervous about finding some clean clothes to wear that fit. I ended up with a loose fitting outfit (elastic waist skirt-aahh--and loose tunic overtop). It was supposed to be cool today, but it was HOT as HELL in my office, so I showed up at the interview a bit sweaty, oh well.
>
> I can relate to the idea of being an effexor sweat bomb!!! I don't get that now, with the xr, but with the regular, I used to sweat buckets and buckets, and a lot of it from my head (there is no hiding the sweat rivers running down your face and making your damp hair stick to your forehead)!
>
> Anyway, my interview went pretty well, though it isn't clear it will work out. But the woman said she would like to try to see if she can work something out.
>
> I am so anxious and excited, but mostly anxious. It is so hard for me to calm down after interviews. I guess this is the kind of time when a drink seems to help calm people down, but I tend not to drink and don't want to be comatose in the am when it is time to get up (combo of meds + alcohol = not so good, I think).
>
> I should maybe do some exercise. Maybe that would work.
>
> Shar, I have been thinking about you all day. Hope it went well.

Noa - if the job interests you at all, I hope you get it. Sometimes you can make these jobs evolve into something that really works. (I have no personal experience for that statement but I have observed it work for others). It sounds as if you may have a potential employer who wants to make things work. As an employer, I can tell you that's worth alot. Good Luck

 

Re: Interview was ok, job would be a nightmare.

Posted by noa on July 21, 2000, at 9:29:14

In reply to Interview was ok, job would be a nightmare., posted by shar on July 21, 2000, at 0:46:44

Shar, the way you describe it, it seems you are very centered, and aware of what would be a good environment for you and what would not. You know yourself well and are clear about your boundaries. That is a terrific ability, and having it hold up in the face of unemployment and stress is pretty admirable.

Also, I think you did a good job of picking up on how the place runs, as it seems that the superviosor acted it out in how she managed her time with the interviews.

Sorry this one wasn't "it" and hope more opps come along real soon.

In the meantime, it was interview experience.


 

Re: Job Interview--Actually,

Posted by noa on July 21, 2000, at 9:29:46

In reply to Re: Job Interview--Actually,, posted by ksvt on July 21, 2000, at 7:11:42

Thank you. The encouragement helps.

 

Thanks and Thoughts

Posted by shar on July 21, 2000, at 21:15:23

In reply to Re: Interview was ok, job would be a nightmare., posted by noa on July 21, 2000, at 9:29:14

Hi, All--

I'm more energized today and wanted to write and say thanks again. What a wonderful mix of encouraging notes, humour, shared experiences. It really helped me to know that other people had gone through the same types of things.

I did a cut and paste on the encouraging messages, put them in a document so I can print it out and have it all on one page. I can reread the messages and be smilin' and stylin' on my way to an interview...if I ever get one...

I think all the prayers helped because the experience and interview played out like a movie where the plot was "show Shar what a chaotic, stressful place this is." And I got to see it, from the interruptions, and delays, to staff cursing about the idiot on the phone, to the frozen computer I was supposed to do my exercise on and nobody around to fix it. (Yes, I froze it up and I don't know how. Just tried to print and got a low memory msg. and it froze and I couldn't work anymore)

Even before the interview it was strange. I went to the bathroom to put on lipstick so I wouldn't look so scary, and there was someone really getting sick. Then as I was wrestling with my hair, she came out and sat on the couch and really looked like she was going to faint. So, I asked her was there a coworker I could call, and she couldn't really talk, just shook her head and mumbled. So, I told her to stay, and I would have somebody look in on her. Then I left and tried to find out if they had designated "first aid" type staff, and asked two staff people to have someone check on her. I hope she was ok; I stopped by the bathroom on my way out and she was gone.

The interviewer called today and left a message saying that she understood my decision, and thought I would be a valuable employee, and nice things. So, no burned bridges (a good thing).

Anyway, all around it was good. I did not think I would be so anxious, and it is good to know I may be next time so I can prep better. Also, I will start earlier trying to find something to wear that doesn't make me look like a house.

Noa, I hope your interview results in a wonderful job for you!

Thanks, all.

xoxo
S


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