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Posted by gardenergirl on June 26, 2007, at 22:46:59
In reply to WHO CARES????Take this to social.... (nm), posted by muffled on June 26, 2007, at 22:17:10
I'm sorry for my role in this conflict. I'm sorry if it's painful to watch and it hurt you.
You painted a lovely picture about life and your kids and beauty earlier (I forget exactly where you wrote it). Can you hold that close and steep in that love?
I'm sorry.
gg
Posted by muffled on June 26, 2007, at 22:50:28
In reply to sorry, wishing I could direct!! » 1musketeer, posted by muffled on June 26, 2007, at 22:44:53
Lord I AM dumb.
Astonishingly so.
I can turn OFF notifications to this thread!!!
Duh!!!
Usu threads just kinda fade away, so I don't have to.
But now I will.
Good suggestion for any others who are struggling w/this.
You can do it from the blurb in your e-mail box.
Sigh. I amaze myself sometimes :-(
M
Posted by muffled on June 26, 2007, at 22:52:04
In reply to sorry, wishing I could direct!! » 1musketeer, posted by muffled on June 26, 2007, at 22:44:53
Posted by 1musketeer on June 26, 2007, at 23:14:44
In reply to sorry, wishing I could direct!! » 1musketeer, posted by muffled on June 26, 2007, at 22:44:53
Posted by dispatcher on June 27, 2007, at 7:50:14
In reply to Re: shaken and profoundly OUTRAGED-diff. from stir » zenhussy, posted by gardenergirl on June 26, 2007, at 16:44:57
>>>>someone who appears to possess a great deal of empathy for the pain of trauma.
*SNORT*
Coming from you, gg - that's a gem, - a true gem!
OK *ALL* (for empahsis, remember) babblers, the call has gone out for empathy, understanding and compassion!
OK gg, *AS YOU WISH!* *SNORT*! (again, for emphasis)
compassion and empathy will be yours from all those you have bequeathed with the same -
Posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:08:22
In reply to *SNORT* as you wish! (babble compassion *trigger*), posted by dispatcher on June 27, 2007, at 7:50:14
> Coming from you, gg - that's a gem, - a true gem!
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Posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:13:21
In reply to sorry, wishing I could direct!! » 1musketeer, posted by muffled on June 26, 2007, at 22:44:53
> and this is just endless this thread, and doesn't seem to be to the benefit of much.
Muffled, Dr. Bob always assumes that those who post on Admin are doing so in their own efforts to improve Babble. So please be careful not to make them feel accused or put down.
I can understand the frustration, but please try to phrase it in I statements. If you have any questions about I statements, feel free to contact me or another deputy.
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Posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:20:43
In reply to Re: perception of privilege » Happyflower, posted by gardenergirl on June 24, 2007, at 1:16:44
> Golly, some folks might respond with demands to know who you're talking about. I think I'll pass on that, though. I'm concerned that others might perceive a post like that from me as being rude.
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Posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:24:26
In reply to Re: perception of privilege » Happyflower, posted by fayeroe on June 24, 2007, at 10:18:08
> HF, remember the experience where the professor set up certain class memebers with authority and others with none? it went south really quickly.
>
> i'd ignore the carrot today, if i were you......xoxoxoPlease don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
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Posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:28:09
In reply to Re: perception of privilege » fayeroe, posted by Happyflower on June 24, 2007, at 12:11:47
> LOL, thanks for the carrot warning!
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Posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:30:47
In reply to Re: Not taking the carrot, yup! stayin' cool!, posted by henrietta on June 25, 2007, at 19:28:18
> Good for you!!! Too bad the carroteer couldn't resist. What a sign of health and wisdom that would be.
> hPlease don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
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Posted by Happyflower on June 27, 2007, at 8:33:14
In reply to Please be civil » Happyflower, posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:28:09
Posted by gardenergirl on June 27, 2007, at 8:46:28
In reply to Please be civil » gardenergirl, posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:20:43
I know all that cost you time and probably aggravation. Sorry.
And I apologize to all who may have been upset reading my part in this thread. I let my anger get the best of my judgment. I'll try to focus on the positive going forward.
gg
Posted by muffled on June 27, 2007, at 9:18:25
In reply to Please be civil » muffled, posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:13:21
> and this is just endless this thread, and doesn't seem to be to the benefit of much.
**OK.
I am finding this thread endless, and cant' understand what it is trying to achieve?
How bout that?
And sorry of course.
Muffled
Posted by 1musketeer on June 27, 2007, at 9:45:05
In reply to Please be civil » henrietta, posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:30:47
Posted by 1musketeer on June 27, 2007, at 9:46:51
In reply to Please be civil » gardenergirl, posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:20:43
carrot person.
Posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 10:59:41
In reply to Re: Please be civil..sorry D, just saw PBC for, posted by 1musketeer on June 27, 2007, at 9:46:51
but since the PBC was for this issue, please do not refer to anyone as a carroteer or carrot person.
Dinah, acting as deputy for Dr. Bob
Posted by 1musketeer on June 27, 2007, at 11:15:38
In reply to I thank you for the apology, posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 10:59:41
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 29, 2007, at 0:29:42
In reply to shaken and profoundly OUTRAGED-diff. from stirred? (nm), posted by zenhussy on June 26, 2007, at 15:09:39
> shaken and profoundly OUTRAGED-diff. from stirred?
Please be sensitive to the feelings of others.
But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
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http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
PS: According to the current system:
previous block: 48 weeks
period of time since previous block: 147 weeks
uncivil toward a particular individual or group: no
particularly uncivil: no
different type of incivility: no
clearly didn't understand PBC and made effort to reply: no
provoked: no
uncivil in multiple posts at same time: no
already archived: noIf we take 147 weeks, divide by 10, and round, that's a reduction of 15 weeks. If we apply that to your previous block, that's 48 - 15 = 33 weeks.
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 29, 2007, at 0:29:43
In reply to Please be civil » henrietta, posted by Deputy Dinah on June 27, 2007, at 8:30:47
> Dr. Bob is always free to override deputy decisions.
These posters were asked to be civil a couple weeks ago, so I'm going to block them for 1 week instead:
dispatcher
gardenergirl
fayeroeHenrietta has been blocked before, and I'm also going to block her for 1 week:
previous block: 1 week
period of time since previous block: 7 weeks
uncivil toward a particular individual or group: yes
particularly uncivil: no
different type of incivility: no
clearly didn't understand PBC and made effort to reply: no
provoked: no
uncivil in multiple posts at same time: no
already archived: noIf we take 7 weeks, divide by 10, and round, that's a reduction of 1 week. If we apply that to her previous block, that takes her back to 0. And if we go from there, that's 1 week.
Happyflower has been blocked before, and I'm going to block her for 2 weeks:
previous block: 2 weeks
period of time since previous block: 9 weeks
uncivil toward a particular individual or group: yes
particularly uncivil: no
different type of incivility: no
clearly didn't understand PBC and made effort to reply: no
provoked: yes
uncivil in multiple posts at same time: no
already archived: noIf we take 9 weeks, divide by 10, and round, that's a reduction of 1 week. If we apply that to her previous block, that's 2 - 1 = 1 week. And if we double that, that's 2 weeks.
I hope they don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like them or think they're bad people.
Bob
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 29, 2007, at 0:29:47
In reply to Re: perception of privilege » Dr. Bob, posted by confuzyq on June 23, 2007, at 1:07:12
> mostly it is just about fairness and consistency, and I just don't see the justification in implying otherwise in such cut-and-dried scenarios.
>
> Sometimes I wonder if the hypotheses you put forth are more about a particular angle you'd like to examine at the moment ... In those cases I'd be more comfortable if you'd just come out and say that X is an angle you would simply like to hear discussed.You're right, I didn't mean to imply that it's only envy, or even mostly envy, just that envy might be a particular angle, one that might be helpful to discuss.
To be fair :-) I started a separate thread to discuss fairness and consistency:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20070605/msgs/766608.html
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by muffled on June 29, 2007, at 0:50:31
In reply to Re: deputy decisions, posted by Dr. Bob on June 29, 2007, at 0:29:43
Posted by muffled on June 29, 2007, at 1:04:38
In reply to sigh. You missed me :-( (nm) » Dr. Bob, posted by muffled on June 29, 2007, at 0:50:31
maybe cuz you thot it was a diff me?
But alla me in the same body.
This is known and accepted.
We take full responsibility for all this body does, says etc.
So if we do wrong things, then it should be punished all the same.
Does it feel bad to come in swinging your sword against your people?
You away so much.
Then you come back and talk full sentences.
So good.
But then the sword is swinging...
I am sad bout this.
Posted by muffled on June 29, 2007, at 1:06:18
In reply to Re: BOB, posted by muffled on June 29, 2007, at 1:04:38
I guess what I wished I could know, and I ascared to ask Bob, is DO you feel much emotions? S'ok if you don't.
I just dunno what to make of you and you REALLY scaring me LOTS right now :-(
Posted by Dinah on June 29, 2007, at 1:18:11
In reply to Re: blocked for 33 weeks » zenhussy, posted by Dr. Bob on June 29, 2007, at 0:29:42
This looks like one of those times when the formula might not be the single best criterion for block length. Wouldn't it be more consistent to set her block length more on similar blocks given on the same thread rather than on her block history?
It was a very heated thread.
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