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Posted by happyflower on January 18, 2006, at 20:05:44
There is a small improvement. He has this long time friend who is in the hospital dying of a liver diease. Well my DH is very upset with his, so this weekend I took a chance and tried to console him and he let me! He needed to get out those emotions, and I am surprised he let me comfort him. We haven't had any connections in months. Well this morning he left for a show in California, and he kissed me goodbye. We haven't even kissed for 6 months or more. I was shocked.
I told my T today that there is some fighting still left in me for my marriage. He said yes, there seems to be some tenderness still there for me. Then I told him that I am never going to let his needs become more important than mine.He said that is very good. Then the elephant conversation took place.We also talked about me and my playing and how I am happier when I am doing it then when I am not. I told him the latest updates about it, and showed him some pictures of my concert(they didnt' turn out so good, but he could still make me out) LOL SO it was a full therapy session, don't ya thinK? LOL
Posted by Dinah on January 18, 2006, at 20:39:49
In reply to Talked about my marriage and playing too in therap, posted by happyflower on January 18, 2006, at 20:05:44
Marriages can get better. They don't always, but they can.
My favorite line about marriages came from "The Four Seasons" (Alan Alda). He says that marriages are like waves. They have crests and troughs.
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