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Posted by muffled on November 30, 2006, at 14:53:16
What would you say if you were describing me to someone else?
Yeah, yeah, she nice and all that I sure, but REALLY.
Its OPEN SEASON on Muffled!!!!
Good and bad.
I need to know bad so I can improve and not have bad.
Good is just good I suppose. Self esteem and all that.
I just don't really seem to know how I come across, and people will never tell you the REAL stuff, like she seems rather up and down, or wingy, or? They always just tell you nice stuff and thats not so helpful always.
How can I stop doing annoying things if noone will tell me?
Don't worry, NOTHING can compare with the negative sh*t I sometimes get on myself about. So lay it on me. Am I annoying? A knowitall? Inconsistant? etc
Thanks
Muffled
Posted by Gee on November 30, 2006, at 15:47:17
In reply to So how DO I come across..., posted by muffled on November 30, 2006, at 14:53:16
Hey Muffled,
I would say that you're really caring. You'll babbblemail me if I post I've been having a hrad time, and you're always very concerned with how everyone is. Very considerate!!!
G
Posted by canadagirl on November 30, 2006, at 17:29:23
In reply to So how DO I come across..., posted by muffled on November 30, 2006, at 14:53:16
You're a bright one. Even when you write that you feel like crap.
Posted by happykat on November 30, 2006, at 17:41:49
In reply to So how DO I come across..., posted by muffled on November 30, 2006, at 14:53:16
Muffled,
I know I just met you but I really like you! : )
You've got spunk and style and personally your posts have been very helpful and supportive to me.happykat
Posted by SatinDoll on November 30, 2006, at 17:50:26
In reply to Re: So how DO I come across... » muffled, posted by canadagirl on November 30, 2006, at 17:29:23
Well okay, you asked, right?
I would say Muffy is kindhearted who doesn't know the extent on how loved she really is and doesn't realize her true potiential. But Yet you know how to let loose and have a great time and say the word f*ck when you need to! You make me laugh and lately that isn't such an easy task.
But I also see someone who has been "wounded" by things and people who aren't as kind as you, and it wasn't your fault, but I feel in the end it will make you even stronger. It gives an ability to relate to others and make them feel good.I really wish I could meet you in real life and roast marshmallows around the campfire, but I won't sing because I don't do that in public. But we could tell funny stories and yell F*CK the world as loud as we want! :-) THAT would be FUN! Plus you can show me how to piss like a guy on the fire! LOL
So most of all I would say that you are someone who is fun and I would enjoy spending time with because you real and you are special. ;-) The only thing I would say that you need to improve on is, believing me when I tell you these things.
Posted by Jost on November 30, 2006, at 19:33:33
In reply to Re: So how DO I come across..., posted by SatinDoll on November 30, 2006, at 17:50:26
Muffled, I think you're down-to-earth, smart, funny, lively, sometimes fierce, excitable--
wise, sometimes because you know how to be simple, cute, have a great mansion with lots of amenities, that I visited this fall.
You are also sweet and a little crazy at times--- and I guess have gone through some really hard things in life-- which you often weather with humor.I always love reading what you write-- and worry about your when you run off or are upset.
I'd say you're a great person.
Sorry, I just don't have any bad stuff to say about you--
Jost
Posted by Lindenblüte on November 30, 2006, at 23:40:27
In reply to Re: So how DO I come across..., posted by Jost on November 30, 2006, at 19:33:33
You're multi-faceted, and I never saw a facet I didn't like.
You make me laugh. You make me think. You make me feel happy.
I think you are very smart, you have a lot of insight, and you have a lot of street smarts.
And my mushy brain is not really able to capture the essence of the muffled I know.
All I know is that I can count on you to help me figure things out when I'm all confused and in shock.
You really care.
thanks for being you, muffled
-Li
Posted by muffled on December 1, 2006, at 9:57:11
In reply to Re: So how DO I come across... » Jost, posted by Lindenblüte on November 30, 2006, at 23:40:27
Well, I dunno.
Its all very strange.
I guess I need to pay more attn to myownself and notice these things.
I'm a little taken aback.
Gonna have to read them again.
Thank you. Very nice things.
Muffled
Posted by LadyBug on December 1, 2006, at 15:57:22
In reply to Well, posted by muffled on December 1, 2006, at 9:57:11
The Muffy that I know, I believe, is very caring, kind and loving. She is a lot of fun and has lots of fun ideas to keep safe and comfortable. I think she cares a lot about other people and is always trying to help when someone needs her. I think she is good to nuture. I think she has struggles just like the rest of us.
It's good you can feel ok with coming here and asking for what other's think. I have nothing to say except positive things about you.
I think it takes a lot of time to learn what triggers us and how we can better cope with those things. I can see lots progress coming from you. Can you see it? Or feel it? I think you are a very special person!
LadyBug
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