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Posted by Scentedgarden on January 2, 2007, at 20:24:45
HI to Sandra from Durham...I'm sorry i took soooo long getting abck to this thread from last month...How is it going with your therapist...?
And also to ***EVERYONE*** and **ANYONE** on here who feels they can tell us in confidence about their feelings wants and desires to give sexual pleasure to, and be a huge sourse of comfort, satisfaction, and wsexual pleasure to their therapist....
Anyone who wants to remind themselves of this thread..or just read it for the first time it can be found the end of November 2006.. called 'My desire to make love 2 her'
The subject is a good one, at leqast I truly genuinely feel/think so in my humble opinion...
and I hope you guys both males and females...are able to get out the sexual fantasies and thoughts you have for those female and male Therapists we see week in and week out... we can all benifit from the sharing and know that the aching desires to F*ck them until they moan, writhing in pleasure looking into our eyes begging us for more and more , more...mmnn
okay so that is my fantasy...what's yours..?
scentedgarden
Posted by sunnydays on January 2, 2007, at 20:38:10
In reply to do u want 2 watch ur T moan with sexual pleasure?, posted by Scentedgarden on January 2, 2007, at 20:24:45
I don't have sexual fantasies about my T at all. It scares me that he even would possibly maybe remotely think of me as sexual. I see him much more as a father figure, and I soooo want to be his daughter. That may be more because of the age difference, though, since he's as old as my mother. But he makes talking about everything so absolutely fine, and he's just great. Sorry, this probably isn't the thread to put this, but I'm just missing him so much tonight, and I'm just thinking about how wonderful and gentle and caring he always is with my feelings.
sunnydays
Posted by muffled on January 2, 2007, at 21:51:58
In reply to do u want 2 watch ur T moan with sexual pleasure?, posted by Scentedgarden on January 2, 2007, at 20:24:45
LOL!!!
Ewwwww! Nope, I most definately don't want to do my t!
But I hope you doing OK with your T and that this fantasising don't get in the way of your therapy.
Take care,
Muffled
Posted by Daisym on January 2, 2007, at 22:59:46
In reply to Re: do u want 2 watch ur T moan with sexual pleasure?, posted by muffled on January 2, 2007, at 21:51:58
Posted by Scentedgarden on January 3, 2007, at 8:08:10
In reply to ***sexual trigger above. (nm), posted by Daisym on January 2, 2007, at 22:59:46
if you dont like the title then dont read it......im sorry but this board is not just for certain people ok...its for everyone....
Posted by Scentedgarden on January 3, 2007, at 8:10:37
In reply to Re: do u want 2 watch ur T moan with sexual pleasure?, posted by muffled on January 2, 2007, at 21:51:58
> LOL!!!
> Ewwwww! Nope, I most definately don't want to do my t!
> But I hope you doing OK with your T and that this fantasising don't get in the way of your therapy.
> Take care,
> Muffled
thanks muff...u make me ROFL too...
eh, and no it dont get in way...thx for ur concern on it tho....LOL
u take care too little one
SG
Posted by Dinah on January 3, 2007, at 9:54:50
In reply to do u want 2 watch ur T moan with sexual pleasure?, posted by Scentedgarden on January 2, 2007, at 20:24:45
Clearly neither has ever had sex at all.
Posted by wishingstar on January 3, 2007, at 9:57:54
In reply to My therapist is like my parents., posted by Dinah on January 3, 2007, at 9:54:50
Posted by gardenergirl on January 3, 2007, at 10:01:58
In reply to ***sexual trigger above. (nm), posted by Daisym on January 2, 2007, at 22:59:46
((((Daisy))))
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Posted by Poet on January 3, 2007, at 10:13:00
In reply to do u want 2 watch ur T moan with sexual pleasure?, posted by Scentedgarden on January 2, 2007, at 20:24:45
I don't even like to think she goes to the bathroom.
Poet
Posted by Scentedgarden on January 3, 2007, at 12:29:56
In reply to Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!, posted by Poet on January 3, 2007, at 10:13:00
Posted by Scentedgarden on January 3, 2007, at 12:37:02
In reply to Thanks for adding the trigger warning » Daisym, posted by gardenergirl on January 3, 2007, at 10:01:58
What the h*ll is a sex trigger anyway...
and where are we here... nusery school..?
You know what sex is ...? RIGHT>>>?
It's not bad ...so whats this warning thing you always tALK ABOUT...
triggers..? ???? I've no idea what's going down here.. about warning and hugging each other for warnings...
HAVE I OFFENDED ANYONE>>?
IF SO.... I APOLOGISE TOTALLY 100%
dont want to hurt anyone or casue upsets....
so sorry if i hurt anyone i never ment to...!!!!!
respectfully
SG
Posted by sunnydays on January 3, 2007, at 12:45:56
In reply to What is a sex trigger-have i done somehting wrong? » gardenergirl, posted by Scentedgarden on January 3, 2007, at 12:37:02
A trigger is just a helpful flag so that people who are sensitive to the subject know that there may be something that makes them uncomfortable and they should avoid it. It just makes it easier for people to know when there might be something that brings out their own issues particularly strongly. Some people don't feel strong enough to read posts that might cause a flashback or make them really uncomfortable, so by having a trigger in the title, it just lets them know it might make them uncomfortable. The warning isn't for you, you didn't do anything wrong at all, it's a courtesy for other posters so they don't read something that triggers a strong response in them if they don't feel ready for it.
Hope that helps.
sunnydays
Posted by Scentedgarden on January 3, 2007, at 13:24:32
In reply to Re: What is a sex trigger-have i done somehting wrong? » Scentedgarden, posted by sunnydays on January 3, 2007, at 12:45:56
HI SUNNY
Some people don't feel strong enough to read posts that might cause a flashback or make them really uncomfortable, so by having a trigger in the title, it just lets them know it might make them uncomfortable.
SO NEXT TIME IS IT MY RESPONSIBILITY TO PUT IN THE WORD TRIGGER..?
AS i ALWAYS RUN OUT OF SPACE.!..ON MY TITLES, LOLThe warning isn't for you, you didn't do anything wrong at all,
WELL THANK GOD FOR THAT...PHEW..!!
it's a courtesy for other posters
THNAKS FOR DOING THE TRIGGER THING THEN WHOEVER NOTICED IT TO SATRT WITH...
so they don't read something that triggers a strong responsei GUESS WE LL HAVE STUFF/ISSUES WE FIND HARD TO DEAL WITH OR FACE...
in them if they don't feel ready for it.
ONLY RECENTLY THROUGH LOTS HARD WORK THAT IM ABLE TO TALK SO FREELY ABOUT THIS...AND I COULD NEVER WATCH SEXUAL VIOLENCE ON TV...OR MOVIES...OR CHILD ABUSE...IT WOULD HURT ME TO SEE IT, AND I WOULD FIND IT DIFF TO DEAL WITH..
>
> Hope that helps.MOST HELPFUL....MUCH APPRECIATE IT
THANKS
>
> sunnydayS
TAKE CARE
SG
Posted by Daisym on January 3, 2007, at 19:58:44
In reply to What is a sex trigger-have i done somehting wrong? » gardenergirl, posted by Scentedgarden on January 3, 2007, at 12:37:02
I was just trying to help. And no, this isn't nursery school, but it isn't high school either.
The issue of sex can be discussed, and is often. (See Muffy's thread above.) But whether a serious or light-hearted discussion, the issue itself can be difficult for some posters to read about. And we've had lots of discussions about whether these kinds of discussions, specifically having to do with a therapist, are triggering or not. To some, they may not be. To others, like myself, they are. So I prefer to stay away from these kinds of threads -- not sexual but teasing about therapy sex.
And (blushing) when I read the titled of the thread, I didn't completely read it and mistakenly thought it was about making your therapist moan in sort of a "Oh no, not this subject again" way...I guess I'm just so dense...
My trigger warning was in no way a judgement or comment on the content of the thread.
Posted by shadowplayers721 on January 17, 2007, at 0:49:10
In reply to What is a sex trigger-have i done somehting wrong? » gardenergirl, posted by Scentedgarden on January 3, 2007, at 12:37:02
I was in the hospital and I couldn't even say the word without this woman literally almost getting violent at me. She was really stuck on the issue that married people should not have sex or touch at all. She was totally against hand holding and hugs. I even tried to talk to her about the hand holding issue, but she threw her journal at me and started screaming about the no touch issue. I think that's my example of a trigger with the sex word. -
Whew! I felt I was walking on eggshells. I know she was in a lot of pain on the topic. It was very difficult for the rest of us in the group that were okay on discussing the topic. She would threaten the others and had to be taken out of the group setting. I felt really bad for her. Something terrible must have happen to her. I have never forgotten her.
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