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Posted by manic666 on May 3, 2009, at 5:12:27
i have never been her before , but why not . my old man is a bastard full stop i dont care if he is 97 .his brain is pin sharp,an he hurt with lack of efection lack of anything,he never has listened only talked bollocks, no love ever shown to my mom an sisters , i have not hear him laugh out loud in all his life , at school i can even remember being bullied , beat to sh*t most days ,he did nothing.he hit my mom i hit him ,few times in court with my gang buddies ,he never came anywhere near . got loads of girls pregnant . no pill in them days looking for love i reckon . called my work on constrution , an he worked a ware house , never took us holiday when kids but my mom did.then if you gave him a gift he would trow it back,loads more through life . now at 98 an still sticking the knife i have blown him out , my sister still looks to him for his welfare an he still hurts her. the last straw was i had a set of keys to his house for if he gets sick , an he said i had been comming in looking to steal his money.hey i no he is old , but he is the main problem from ,my illness an i have pulled the plug on the old git
Posted by fleeting flutterby on May 3, 2009, at 8:35:45
In reply to my old man 98 an still hurting his kids., posted by manic666 on May 3, 2009, at 5:12:27
>> the last straw was i had a set of keys to his house for if he gets sick , an he said i had been comming in looking to steal his money.hey i no he is old , but he is the main problem from ,my illness an i have pulled the plug on the old git<<
Ouch! I'm sorry your old man won't appreciate and give back the love you all so deserve.
My mom has been accusing us kids of similar(theft), as long as I can remember. and- If we help her- or show we care, that is when she is the meanest. So, showing people I care can be very triggering- though, I push myself to do so(as I still believe that its' supposed to be a good thing)-- but with much anxiety that said people will be mean and hate me.
It's amazing how no matter our age, we may still feel such soul stabbing pain from our parents....... like- I'm still ever striving to be "accepted" as her daughter, hoping she will someday accept me as well as she accepts strangers. The therapist I see is trying to help me find peace in other realms.
I will hope for inner strength for you and your sister. You're in my wishes.
flutterby-mandy
Posted by Poet on May 3, 2009, at 16:03:41
In reply to my old man 98 an still hurting his kids., posted by manic666 on May 3, 2009, at 5:12:27
Hi Maniac666,
I don't blame you for giving up on that old git, he seems to be your father only in the biological sense. One hard cyber slap to his thick head.
Take pride that you did not turn out like your father did, you overcame his abuse and bad example of what fatherhood is.
Poet
Posted by Phillipa on May 3, 2009, at 22:32:32
In reply to Re: my old man 98 an still hurting his kids. » manic666, posted by Poet on May 3, 2009, at 16:03:41
Hey Manic I know you have a heart of gold and you developed it yourself. Something to be proud of. Love Phillipa
Posted by manic666 on May 4, 2009, at 5:39:10
In reply to my old man 98 an still hurting his kids., posted by manic666 on May 3, 2009, at 5:12:27
im starting to see the damage he has done over they years, you no those things that you need an asnwer for as a kid , you look to your dad to make it better.if he wont answer you there is no one else , so the problem stays , an grows into an even bigger one till you have hundred of problems not answered , ie then mental illness.think? a shrink wants answers from you.but you never got them through life as a young boy,just one question to you old man that your worried about , if he say,s dont be silly son its ok , thats done with gone from your head. no answer at it stays forever, they always go on about the best time of there lives was overseas in the war an there buddies , not the family, ive listened to this for years. he has been ill with anxierty all his life ,but he wont admit it , ive lost count of the times he has been in hospital for stomach exploration. an its anxierty crippling his guts. some benzos an then job done. he blames different food , you no i carnt eat this or that the says,he will say to my sister you nearly killed me yesterday with that food dont buy it again .nothing wrong with it ocourse but she takes the hurt an its wrong, sorry just letting a bit more out
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