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Posted by BabyToes on June 10, 2009, at 11:02:34
My T's eyes remind me of my mom's, who was my abuser and it is hard. How did you ever move past this?
Posted by BirdSong on June 10, 2009, at 16:28:38
In reply to Has something in the way your T looks, trigger you, posted by BabyToes on June 10, 2009, at 11:02:34
Hmm.. That's hard. I NEVER look at my T and probably could not tell you what T looks like. Even when T says "look at me," I can't....
Have you talked to T about it? Talk about it over and over and over...
I think that is the only way to work it out...
Posted by FindingMyDesire on June 10, 2009, at 19:16:47
In reply to Has something in the way your T looks, trigger you, posted by BabyToes on June 10, 2009, at 11:02:34
Hi BabyToes,
I definitely agree with BirdSong on this one. Talk about it as much as you can/need to. Is that possible? I'm curious, too, if you have said something about it. Seems really, super important.I have totally different issues about how my T "looks" but not related to your story here.
This sounds very hard, but I'm wondering if this reminding you of your mother could help lead to some deeper work in some round-about way.
FMD
Posted by BabyToes on June 11, 2009, at 1:36:42
In reply to Re: Has something in the way your T looks, trigger you, posted by FindingMyDesire on June 10, 2009, at 19:16:47
Thanks for your support. I am working on this in therapy, she knows all of my issues.
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