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Posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 1:45:26
I too have felt this way. I hate that you did. I must admit I don't come here as often as I did.
But then again, I have been going to so many specialist and to the hospital having so many tests that quite frankly coming home and going online has been the last thing I want to do.
Couple that with I allowed myself to be coierced into giving a party for my husband's boss and all his reports it has stressed out someone that is too easily stressed out.
And to topped it all off I think I have bruised my ribs on the left side of my body hopefully bruised is all and not else. I can't sleep thinking about all the stuff I need to do and that is with xananx and a drink.
But if you need to talk please babblemail me. I do check my emails.
I don't like to think of someone feeling lonely and invisible. i myself have felt that way and it sucks.
so don't do that anymore reach out and babblemail if you need someone.
I am always here just a babblemail click away. take care
rsk
Posted by Phillipa on June 19, 2009, at 13:36:02
In reply to Birdsong, i am sorry you felt invisible...., posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 1:45:26
RSK how is the testing going? Love Phillipa my babblemail is also on.
Posted by 10derHeart on June 19, 2009, at 19:46:55
In reply to Birdsong, i am sorry you felt invisible...., posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 1:45:26
Hi rsk,
I could be completely wrong, but could you have been meaning to make this post to yellowbird01, instead of Birdsong?
Based on her thread above?
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20090614/msgs/901367.html
I ask because yellowbird did say she felt invisible, and I'm not sure Birdsong ever did. Also, because I saw this appear to happen with these same 2 names containing the word "bird" over on another board recently. So easy to do...
If I'm wrong, please forgive the intrusion. I thought I'd say something, because I'm sure you very much want yellowbird to see you posted (very kind and caring) thread to her, and maybe she won't read it with "the other bird's" (Lol) name...
Hope you understand where I'm coming from....and I am glad to see you back posting here. Your voice is always missed. -- 10der
Posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 22:16:33
In reply to Name confusion?? » rskontos, posted by 10derHeart on June 19, 2009, at 19:46:55
I can't find the post that made me start this thread. And it was 3:00 am so my eyes were bleary. Ok maybe I meant yellowbird.
Maybe I am the one that needs to be invisible.
Sorry to both yellowbird and Birdsong.
I guess my intentions were honorable even if my delivery lacked tremendously.
Thank you 10der for pointing my error. and thanks for welcoming me back.
rsk
Posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 22:54:24
In reply to Re: Birdsong, i am sorry you felt invisible.... » rskontos, posted by Phillipa on June 19, 2009, at 13:36:02
Thanks for asking Phillipa.
I am not having a great week. I bruised about three or four of my ribs on my left side and I am left handed. It sucks. I am having a big party for my husband's company and I have to take painkillers like hydrocodone because I can't take NSAIDs. Due to my gastric condition. and my small upper bowel has some inflammation too.
SO I feel lousy. And it sucks because i actually think the new med the endo put me on is giving me more energy.
I plan starting work with a new trainer this week, that is if I get cleared by my doctor with regards to my stupid ribs. My chlosterol (misspelled and I am too tired to look it up) is just slightly up due to trigcyerides again misspelled. And not by much. Doc said my new diet and exercise would lower that. My blood sugar levels were great. and my Good chlosterol was at an ideal range and so was the bad only the tryglercides were slightly up. so that isn't bad for someone with adrenal fatigue and thyroid issues and sleeping round the clock.
again thanks for asking.
rsk
Posted by Phillipa on June 20, 2009, at 19:59:57
In reply to Re: Testing is going » Phillipa, posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 22:54:24
Rsk really and truly sorry about all the problems your're have. You can babble but what new med from endo? And need to ask you about hormones. Thanks Phillipa
Posted by 10derHeart on June 21, 2009, at 11:43:43
In reply to Re: Name confusion??Maybe I did because » 10derHeart, posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 22:16:33
> I can't find the post that made me start this thread.
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20090614/msgs/901367.html
>And it was 3:00 am so my eyes were bleary.
Sounds like me - often. Can't sleep well :-(
> Maybe I am the one that needs to be invisible.
No. Of course not. I'd wish that on no one here, or anywhere. I've felt that feeling - it hurts too much.
> Sorry to both yellowbird and Birdsong.
I don't see you owing anyone an apology. It's a human tendency for similar word mixup - in this case they happened to be posting names - and tht's all.
> I guess my intentions were honorable even if my delivery lacked tremendously.Your intentions were wonderful, like I said in my prior post. Your delivery didn't lack a thing - just a completely human mixup in similar names.
> Thank you 10der for pointing my error.That's the last thing I was wanting to do. I'm sorry it came across that way. I hope even if I must have chosen the wrong tone or words, you know me from here, well enough, that pointing out anyone's errors, isn't part of who I am or anything that would matter enough to me to post about, for its own sake. I just thought you might be puzzled if the person you were so thoughtful about - yellowbird - didn't respond (that could even hurt, possibly) because she (YB) wouldn't necessarily read a thread addressed to Birdsong. That's all. I though I was helping, but...
>and thanks for welcoming me back.
I meant it and I hope your're able to stay. I've read your other posts and I know you're not exactly having a fun time right now. I can't recall when that dinner party (if that's the right way to describe it) was, but I hope it's over and you can rest. I don't know how you do it with everything else, mentally and physically, on your plate. I know I couldn't. I think you are amazing.
Rsk, please forgive me if I made anything worse. I'm afraird from some things you wrote I made you feel criticized, when that was the farthest thing from my intent. I'm sorry.
Posted by rskontos on June 21, 2009, at 14:32:19
In reply to Just hoped to help yellowbird see your kindness » rskontos, posted by 10derHeart on June 21, 2009, at 11:43:43
Oh no no no no 10der
You made me feel anything but criticized or bad. I was embarassed over my blunder but I am grateful that you pointed it out.
I do know all too well how tender your heart truly is. I also respect you very much so no I am sorry my somewhat foggy brain isn't functioning on all levels and I did not communicate well at all.
IN order to get through this party preparation with my bruised ribs I have had to take hydrocondone and it doesn't affect me too terribly much but it did take the pain away enough to get everything done.
Thanks for remembering the party it was last night and a big success. I must admit the food turned out well. I am an excellent cook if I am honest which I never really think about what I do do well. My T is always trying to get me to stop doing this. But I can organize things and I am fairly good at putting on a good event when I feel well, this was hard because I feel less than well. In any even I got thru it.
I did contract out all I could. I got someone to clean my house, someone to do some flower arrangement because fresh flowers will always make a house look festive. And then I had a theme food party, Greek food because my husband is Greek and his boss and co-workers expected it. But Greek food is labor intensive so I cook for about 4 days. In the end it all turned out lovely. The food was very good. Even to me, I am my own worst critic.
So 10der you are very sweet and I know anything you ever say always said in kindness.
thanks
rsk
Posted by rskontos on June 21, 2009, at 14:32:54
In reply to Re: Just hoped to help yellowbird see your kindnes, posted by rskontos on June 21, 2009, at 14:32:19
Posted by yellowbird01 on June 21, 2009, at 17:53:36
In reply to Birdsong, i am sorry you felt invisible...., posted by rskontos on June 19, 2009, at 1:45:26
rsk, how nice of you to post this... really. Thank you. I appreciate the offer of babblemail etc. I'll keep that in mind. :) Same offer to you of course! With issues with my T and everything else going on, I guess I'm just extra-sensitive right now.
I'm sorry to hear about all the health and other issues going on for you right now. Yikes. Nothing messes with me mentally like feeling terrible physically can. I hope it starts to improve soon.
> I too have felt this way. I hate that you did. I must admit I don't come here as often as I did.
>
> But then again, I have been going to so many specialist and to the hospital having so many tests that quite frankly coming home and going online has been the last thing I want to do.
>
> Couple that with I allowed myself to be coierced into giving a party for my husband's boss and all his reports it has stressed out someone that is too easily stressed out.
>
> And to topped it all off I think I have bruised my ribs on the left side of my body hopefully bruised is all and not else. I can't sleep thinking about all the stuff I need to do and that is with xananx and a drink.
>
> But if you need to talk please babblemail me. I do check my emails.
>
> I don't like to think of someone feeling lonely and invisible. i myself have felt that way and it sucks.
>
> so don't do that anymore reach out and babblemail if you need someone.
>
> I am always here just a babblemail click away. take care
>
> rsk
Posted by rskontos on June 21, 2009, at 20:52:19
In reply to Re: Birdsong, i am sorry you felt invisible.... » rskontos, posted by yellowbird01 on June 21, 2009, at 17:53:36
Hi
I just did not want you to feel so bad. I hope things are better.
And boy do I understand being extra sensitive.
rsk
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