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Posted by coachdee on September 12, 2005, at 21:46:26
Is the old saying "it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved" really true? I think that I have found the "one" for me, yet I can't help but thinking about my exs. What am I supposed to do?
Coachdee
Posted by sunny10 on September 13, 2005, at 8:14:34
In reply to Better to have loved and lost?, posted by coachdee on September 12, 2005, at 21:46:26
In my opinion, it goes hand in hand with the saying "that which doesn't kill us, makes us stronger"...
That being said, my T has told me that when I keep thinking about ex's, it's because I want to be like them in some way. Did I fall for them because they seemed strong, seemed powerful, seemed intelligent, seemed calm, et cetera? Whatever it was , it was because it was something I felt was lacking in myself. Because if it was actually a relationship that was meant to be, it wouldn't have ended.
That way my T's take on it anyway, feel free to do with it what you will...
-sunny10
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