Psycho-Babble Social Thread 10689

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Kristi, I have some extra

Posted by susan C on September 2, 2001, at 13:34:16

Hi,

hope you are coping, I won't ask if you are better, i know it will be a while. I just wanted you to know I have more breast tissue than I want, I will give you some. In fact you can have all of both of em. I will just go without, stand up straight, finally and not bother with these bras and going through the bother of finding one that fits and is comfortable and with out ssquishing out the sides. OOps, sorry didn't mean to get you laughing again...;o)

I was in sales, and it is true being a gal helped but another big gal and I would watch the other's guy customers as entertainment. It was a little sad how all they did was look at were our boobs when they were making 30,000 dollar decisions.

You would think they'd never seen them before. That we were aliens from outter space...They were probably thinking with only their little head.

But then, of course I do have a thing about baskets.....oops, is this appropriate topic for this broad oops board?

Susan

 

Re: Kristi, I have some extra » susan C

Posted by Kristi on September 2, 2001, at 14:07:40

In reply to Kristi, I have some extra, posted by susan C on September 2, 2001, at 13:34:16

Susan,
Way too funny! Ya know, before I caught this post to me... I had seen you had mentioned to someone else above offering me some of your chest. I think I responded to that, then came down and saw this. Your too much.

But ya know... it's not the flatness that bothers me..... I could live with that.... it's the deformaties. Each surgery to remove some of this towel, also removed some of my breast tissue.

You've really got to quit it with that laughing shit!!!!!

You know... it's so hard to understand. My boobs don't look like boobs anymore.. and I can't believe I just admitted that on a public forum. If inplants would make them look better.... I might do it... if there are other ways, I'd consider them too, probably more so. Right now I am sportin' the water bra and you can't tell. Unfortunately, it's going to take years to heal and maybe even longer if he didnt get all the cloth out last time. But thanks, your opinions matter, because you may stumble on something I haven't thought of.

Loved your story about the sales. Did you have a lot of regular customers?

Baskets????/ Ha ha. Girl, it's been a long time since I've thought about sex.
I go on dates.... and seem to find some reason I have to break up with them about the third one. I work in an occupation where I am asked out about 50 times a day. But it'll take that special dude to get to the third. To actually show this to another person.

During this last surgery... I'm not sure who was following, I was really out of it.I had to pack myself inside with gauze. When the doctor first did it... he did 6 ft.... told me I wouldn't have to do that much ... thank the fine lord. But watching him pulling it out was exactly like that clown pulling out the neverending handkerchiefs... and I'll never forget the feeling of try to keep my gag reflexes in composure.... and the look of my brother turning different colors. My brother and the doc's are the only ones to have ever see what they look like. Ok... really vented there.

Thanks for the morning letter. Needed it. And thanks for your ever so unselfish desire of gift giving. I have to go pack now. Take care, Kristi


> Hi,
>
> hope you are coping, I won't ask if you are better, i know it will be a while. I just wanted you to know I have more breast tissue than I want, I will give you some. In fact you can have all of both of em. I will just go without, stand up straight, finally and not bother with these bras and going through the bother of finding one that fits and is comfortable and with out ssquishing out the sides. OOps, sorry didn't mean to get you laughing again...;o)
>
> I was in sales, and it is true being a gal helped but another big gal and I would watch the other's guy customers as entertainment. It was a little sad how all they did was look at were our boobs when they were making 30,000 dollar decisions.
>
> You would think they'd never seen them before. That we were aliens from outter space...They were probably thinking with only their little head.
>
> But then, of course I do have a thing about baskets.....oops, is this appropriate topic for this broad oops board?
>
> Susan

 

My thoughts...Kristi

Posted by Krazy Kat on September 2, 2001, at 18:30:14

In reply to Re: Kristi, I have some extra » susan C, posted by Kristi on September 2, 2001, at 14:07:40

> I have absolutely no idea what you're going through, but just wanted to add some support...

- K.

 

Re: My thoughts...Kristi

Posted by sar on September 2, 2001, at 20:17:45

In reply to My thoughts...Kristi, posted by Krazy Kat on September 2, 2001, at 18:30:14

kristi,

you can have some of my breast tissue, too. remember how i told you my left is larger than the right? you can have some from the left.

hang in there,
sar

 

Re: My thoughts...Kristi

Posted by Mair on September 3, 2001, at 20:13:10

In reply to Re: My thoughts...Kristi, posted by sar on September 2, 2001, at 20:17:45

> Kristi - is your brother going to be around awhile? Will you have some help and support when you go home? I'm thinking about you.

Mair

 

Re: My thoughts...Kristi » Mair

Posted by Kristi on September 3, 2001, at 20:24:59

In reply to Re: My thoughts...Kristi, posted by Mair on September 3, 2001, at 20:13:10


Mair,
Thank you so much for your concern. That is so sweet. Actually, my brother left the day after my surgery.... he works for the oakland A's... and he can't get time off right now.
My boyfriends helpful.... but as far as support... it's you guys!!!! :-) This is something for me that it difficult, if not impossible to share. Since were all strangers here in that respect it's so much easier. Most of the people I work with know that I have had complications from a previous surgery, but no details.
I haven't even let my boyfriend see. He does what he can..... what I'll let him do I guess. He gets frustrated.

I'm going back to work tomarrow. I'm not supposed to go back for 12 weeks.... but I don't have much choice. I've already missed 10 months of work in one year.... I have $2.21 in my account. And I refuse to let a mistake a surgeon made make me loose everything I have.
But.... I'm pretty bright... as far as not overduing it. I have a lot of friends that'll help me and I'll be sure not to carry big loads.
Thank you so much for asking. You don't know how much that means to me. Your a sweetheart.


> > Kristi - is your brother going to be around awhile? Will you have some help and support when you go home? I'm thinking about you.
>
> Mair

 

Re: My thoughts...Kristi » Kristi

Posted by sar on September 9, 2001, at 1:51:50

In reply to Re: My thoughts...Kristi » Mair, posted by Kristi on September 3, 2001, at 20:24:59

intrusion into yr love life--

so how long have you been seeing this guy? has it progressed to the point where you could mention that you had breast cancer?

i'm not surprised he gets frustrated--perhaps he wants more trust in the relationship, if it has progressed to that point?

do you think there's a point with everyone? some sort of *something*? so i'm alkie, i've got a snaky scar, i've got chicken legs, i'm mentally ill--but my current boy seems to be infatuated with me in spite of all of this!

my last boyfriend smoked so much pot that he began to develop a "breast bud"--like, he was really skinny, but one of his areolas really began to protrude. he became horribly ashamed, wearing pocket tees and tucking packs of cigs in the pocket to cover his "deformity"--he thought i'd dump him over it!! and i was just--"baby, i love you, no..." but it was so *maginified* in his mind. he swore me to secrecy etc, tho i think all of our other stobner buds would have not only been sypathetic, but it would have been a great warning to them.

any guy who is worth his weight in salt will accept the truth as he knows you and he loves you. *to me* it sounds like you have a great lawsuit on your hands, and ya better hire the best damn boob surgeon in the country, and you're still young...shit! i can't imagine how it would feel to have this problem that you do, but i know that i've felt absolutely *devastated* that my right is a perfect C and my left is popping into a D--the inequity of it all!--so i'd imagine yr pretty fuckin down, as evinced by yr posts.

time, baby, time...good lawyer=good money=good results, if all goes well. please realize that this is not a permanent situation.

i found out my new boyfriend has a tiny penus! so fuckin what?! it does matter, but i still consider him my jake ryan (did you ever watch *16 candles*?).

body parts ain't everything, babe, and you seem to have a wonderful personality.

please keep us updated. do you have a bad-ass lawyer? was this in the media at all? i rmemeber watching an episode of sally-jesse in which a doc had left (i have no idea how) a piece of *carpet* in his patient's implants, and she became very ill, infected...are you suing your doc?

i worked as a clinical assistant at one point, went through rigorous training, and we learned that docs are much, much more likely to be careless about rules than nurses, assistants, what-have-you, because--well, i don't know. the main thing i remember is that in a medical job, you're supposed to wash yr hands 50-8- times a day, and docs average like, 5. infections from non-hand-washing cause a variety of infections/deaths....

oh kristi, i could ramble forever on this, but i'll stop...keep posting and be your own be your own best advocate, and i hope you have some bad-ass lawyer to sue the hospital and get you a bad-ass tit-job...


:)

love,
sar


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