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Posted by Angel Girl on May 8, 2002, at 17:44:17
I've decided not to post here anymore. You've all been more than accomodating and have tried to help me. But I'm starting to realize that by posting here I feel like I'm looking for pity and I'm not. I know how hard it is for people to stand by me and to be the brunt of my anger. I also know that it's my behavior that they are abandoning and not me but the end result is that I'm still alone. They're not in my life anymore so it really doesn't matter why they abandon or what they abandon, the fact is they're gone from my life.
I'm not looking for pity or anybody to feel sorry for me. I never was. But I've decided not to post anymore.
I will look for the book that was suggested. I wrote it down so I won't forget. Right now I'm just too tired of it all, I have too much anger and phenomenol pain and hurt. I need to be alone for however long as I can stand to be with myself.
Thanks for all your help, advice and support. I'm sorry I've let you all down.
Fallen Angel
Posted by IsoM on May 8, 2002, at 18:01:43
In reply to GOODBYE, posted by Angel Girl on May 8, 2002, at 17:44:17
Angel, if you feel not posting for a while will help, you probably know best. May I make a suggestion? It would help me but because I don't know if it suits your personality - I just ask you to consider my suggestion instead.
Pack a sandwich, take a drink along, dress appro for the weather wherever you are, wad up some toilet paper into a pocket in case you need to take a pee somewhere & go for a long walk where there's no one around & it's safe. Try to get into nature or something that is calming & meditative. Walk for hours with no plan except to walk & think.
It doesn't solve my problems but strangely I come back somewhat refreshed & able to think again. Take care, sweetie. I want you to be safe. I wish I was there to take you for a long walk with me. Not much conversation - just walking together.
Posted by kid_A on May 8, 2002, at 18:15:53
In reply to GOODBYE, posted by Angel Girl on May 8, 2002, at 17:44:17
Angel Girl,
I know how it feels to need to take a break, hiatus, whatever you want to call it. I think that you should know that you can yell scream holler and cry your eyes out at us and we won't bat an eyelash, because we've all been there before... (im there right now just supressing it)...I hope you'll take the time someday and come back, I havent spoken to you in any ammount that you should take my words as gospel, but if there is any place that accepts the ups and downs of everyone's life it's here...
be well, and i truly wish you the best, though i feel as you do, that sometimes all we get is the worst...
Posted by CtrlAlt n Del on May 8, 2002, at 19:06:25
In reply to GOODBYE, posted by Angel Girl on May 8, 2002, at 17:44:17
have a rest and report back soon or else I'll send my freaky chickens to go and fetch you back and that is no joyride : )
Posted by ST on May 11, 2002, at 4:21:45
In reply to Re: HELLO, posted by CtrlAlt n Del on May 8, 2002, at 19:06:25
Angel Girl,
Everyone needs a vacation...take care of yourself. We'll all be thinking of you. Don't ever let things get really hideously bad without coming here...don't do anything rash, know what I mean?
Take care!
Sarah
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