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Posted by jyl on November 14, 2002, at 13:56:40
no one answered my post in psycho babble:(
husband is in the middle east:(
feeing forgotten ,pushed aside,judged,guilty,depresed,angry,nervous,alone
and scared.
j
Posted by Gabbix2 on November 14, 2002, at 14:33:31
In reply to feeling like i am alone, posted by jyl on November 14, 2002, at 13:56:40
JYL
I answered one of your posts, just to let you know that I most certainly said 'hi' to you too.
I'm sorry you are feeling abandoned.
Thats my most hated feeling, so scared, and seemingly inconquerable.Sometimes it seems that even if people are around, they can't get through. Still its awfully nice if they try. And presents are nice too.
It sounds really 'simple' but sometimes it helps me if I pretend I'm holding my own hand, figuratively speaking. Do things for yourself that you would do for a guest. You know, if you have some tea, make sure you make it properly, and if you take a bath, make sure the tub is squeaky clean, and warm up the towel on the heater so its nice when you're finished.
Do you have any Calcium supplements? They can help too.
Its also good to blame it on the weather.
I do that. It makes me feel like I have a reason for my mood, though, it would probably come flying at me anyway.It will pass. Its an awful thing, but it is a "mood" and it will change.
Let me know how you're doing okay?
Posted by IsoM on November 14, 2002, at 14:38:40
In reply to feeling like i am alone, posted by jyl on November 14, 2002, at 13:56:40
Jyl, you only posted there about 6 hours ago (looking at the time of the posts). You will get more answers but many people are working & few are near their computer all the time.
I read your post but have little knowledge of BP & can't asnwer your plea.
I can understand how you're feeling now. When I'm doing good, my self-confidence & self-esteem is just fine, but when very depressed, everything happens to have a negative connotation to me. I know it's not true but I can't help feeling that way. Depression is so debilitating - even when others reached out to me, nothing they could say made me feel less alone. Depression gives us tunnel vision & the view is straight down into the darkest hole.
You'll get more answers - I know you will. It may take a couple of days as many posters only come a couple of times a week. And you'll get lots of comisseration here in PB Social. Just wait a bit...
Posted by Robin David John on November 14, 2002, at 15:50:38
In reply to feeling like i am alone, posted by jyl on November 14, 2002, at 13:56:40
> no one answered my post in psycho babble:(
> husband is in the middle east:(
> feeing forgotten ,pushed aside,judged,guilty,depresed,angry,nervous,alone
> and scared.
> jYou are never alone Jyl we are listenening..I feel very alone at this time too I have had to say goodbye to a dear friend today and that really hurts...Robin
Posted by Eddie Sylvano on November 14, 2002, at 16:46:11
In reply to feeling like i am alone, posted by jyl on November 14, 2002, at 13:56:40
> no one answered my post in psycho babble:(
------------Ehhh. Don't worry about it. Sometimes there just isn't anyone qualified to answer. I've had it happen a few times...
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20021025/msgs/125840.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20020914/msgs/120119.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20020821/msgs/117220.html
Of course, my questions don't really have the urgency that yours does, but the feeling is the same ("Why doesn't anyone answer me!?").
So anyway, you're not alone. We all read this and saw that you were upset, and want you to feel better. I hope you do.
Posted by ShelliR on November 15, 2002, at 14:28:54
In reply to feeling like i am alone, posted by jyl on November 14, 2002, at 13:56:40
Good for you for asking for more support, rather than crawling away feeling worse. That was pretty brave.
Shelli
Posted by Roman on November 15, 2002, at 20:30:37
In reply to feeling like i am alone, posted by jyl on November 14, 2002, at 13:56:40
Hi,
I'm fairly new around here, but I thought I'd let you know that I am here with you, and all the other babblers, dealing with similar situations.
I often feel the way you are feeling. I haven't come up with a cure yet, but I'll let you know when I do.
Hope you feel better.
-Roman
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