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Posted by femlite on November 18, 2003, at 21:14:00
Lets talk about pain of heart
Posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 21:26:42
In reply to Stavros, Im here, posted by femlite on November 18, 2003, at 21:14:00
I am as well
Posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 21:40:15
In reply to Stavros, Im here, posted by femlite on November 18, 2003, at 21:14:00
Femlite do ever go to any chat rooms? I like this one called http://www.walkers.org They are experiencing a little bit of difficulty but I go under the handle atypical
Posted by femlite on November 18, 2003, at 21:55:17
In reply to Re: Stavros, Im here, posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 21:40:15
I have looked at that one. But maybe we can try this first.
I have some questions about your faith situation.
We will get redirected to the faith board. Want to meet there?
Posted by femlite on November 18, 2003, at 22:06:43
In reply to Re: Stavros, Im here, posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 21:26:42
I will not pry into matters you do not wish to discuss. Belief is a very perosonal thing.
I will follow your lead
Posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 22:34:06
In reply to We can talk about what you like » Stavros, posted by femlite on November 18, 2003, at 22:06:43
boy that chat room is not tonight! usually its much better. I open to any help as I am not doing anything in life other than tryting to get to the bottom of this thing
Posted by femlite on November 18, 2003, at 22:43:10
In reply to Re: We can talk about what you like, posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 22:34:06
I posted you a mesage on the faith board. Can you meet me there. It can be pretty private sometimes
Posted by sienna on November 18, 2003, at 23:12:36
In reply to Re: We can talk about what you like » Stavros, posted by femlite on November 18, 2003, at 22:43:10
man they really did NOT like me in that chat room. I had some stuff to talk about that i couldnt talk abou there becuase this place isnt anonymous for me under my userid. oh well, i guess ill find somewehre to blah blah blah about my dumb problems.
sienna
Posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 23:40:41
In reply to SOrry to interupt, posted by sienna on November 18, 2003, at 23:12:36
sorry to hear that. That site just go messed up in the last week or so but it's usually a well run place and if you need to chat with just one other person it's fine otherwish go on to yahoo? ALl these sites that are worth theri salt have to be monitiored closely or things get out of hand.
Posted by sienna on November 18, 2003, at 23:44:06
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt, posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 23:40:41
oh its not your fault or mine either its just that i followed the only rule and somehow talked about the wrong thing. then people ignored me. but its ok, i can take ignoration or whatever thats called. I just wish i didnt feel so stupid all the time. i guess not all the time, but right now anyway.
im sure it s a great place. i am just broken right now and my pieces dont really fit,.
Posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 23:50:29
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt » Stavros, posted by sienna on November 18, 2003, at 23:44:06
Yeah i think we are all broken! I am also feeling more broken than in the past. I hate it because I feel like I have everything one could want but I am so broken? Don't know what to tell ya, when you are hanging on by a thread, just tie a know and hand there?? fake it till ya make it.
Posted by sienna on November 18, 2003, at 23:52:26
In reply to Re: Tie a knot at the end of your rope?, posted by Stavros on November 18, 2003, at 23:50:29
Posted by femlite on November 19, 2003, at 0:07:29
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt » Stavros, posted by sienna on November 18, 2003, at 23:44:06
You sound pretty down Sienna, (I like your name) It is water color name.
Your not interupting.
I usually feel like Im not like others and dont fit also.
Hope it goes better tomorrow.
Goodnight
Posted by sienna on November 19, 2003, at 0:11:35
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt » sienna, posted by femlite on November 19, 2003, at 0:07:29
Thanks femlite.
im sorry you feel the same sometimes too. i think being different is good a lot of the time. but sometimes it hurts.
i named myself after a three year old i met a long time ago who would be much older now, but in my memory she is always three.
sienna
Posted by femlite on November 19, 2003, at 10:37:26
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt, posted by sienna on November 19, 2003, at 0:11:35
I agree. Being different is good, but as you said, hard.
I am very fortunate to have a good marriage.
I wanted to be married for a long time and was 28 when I finally met the right one. It was so painful feeling at times I would never find him.
It was when I got involved in a volunteer organization and really stopped looking (of course :) that I met him. It was a good way to meet someone, because it was a good start to have that interest to share.
He's different too of course, but more stable than me (good thing)
I feel for anyone in the dating scene today. Iwas hard when I was out there (15 yrs ago) and probably no better today.
Do you have any hobbies?
Are you getting good pdoc treatment?
best regards
Posted by sienna on November 19, 2003, at 22:16:07
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt » sienna, posted by femlite on November 19, 2003, at 10:37:26
hi there,
im glad you got married and are happy with it. i want to be married one day but am not sure will i meet someone. im older than you were when you met someone. i had pretty much quit looking when i met my current bf. we have a same hobby. yeah, i have hobbies and stuff and its good but i dont meet to many peopel relaly. i dont like the dating scene at all, but i dont like being lonely.
i dont really see my pdoc anymore since im not on meds. i have been doing well for a long time, and am not so terrible now. just a little stressed.
how are you today?
sienna
Posted by femlite on November 19, 2003, at 23:29:21
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt » sienna, posted by femlite on November 19, 2003, at 10:37:26
Hi Sienna
Thamks for writing.
Im swing from low to high. I know its not good but I d rather be manic than depressed
I took my sleep meds so I could be good an get to bed on time,but I so love staying up when the house is quiet.
P. S. Is the BF a good prospect:-)
goodnight
Posted by femlite on November 19, 2003, at 23:32:37
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt » femlite, posted by sienna on November 19, 2003, at 22:16:07
Too much ambien
goodnight
Posted by sienna on November 20, 2003, at 23:56:44
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt » femlite, posted by femlite on November 19, 2003, at 23:29:21
i prefer manic too depressed too.
i love staying up late but always pay the next day; how are you feeling now? still little on the upswing?yes in some ways he is a good prospect in others im not so sure, but it must be that way with everyone...
sienna
Posted by femlite on November 21, 2003, at 21:13:08
In reply to Re: SOrry to interupt » femlite, posted by sienna on November 20, 2003, at 23:56:44
I try to be good and take my sleep meds, before it gets late. Sometimes I get tired of going to bed early. They say staying up late can increase or lengthen you manic phase.
But this phase seems unaffected so far by what time I go to bed, Ive been reasonable (I think) and under the covers by 10 or 11. and Im still wired the next day.I think you nailed it. Its always that way (with men) The only advice I can offer is find one who is crazy about you and steady (even temperd, you know, not like us) and hang onto each other. I havent regretted it. It was hard at first. WE ARE SO DIFFERENT!!! But after 15 years its really getting good. We've rubbed off on each other ;-)
thanks for the post
have a good one
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