Shown: posts 1 to 2 of 2. This is the beginning of the thread.
Posted by st@cy on December 17, 2003, at 23:01:50
i just don't know anything right now...i feel like i'm going nuts or something. things are not going how i want them to and i am seeing things for what they really are. the guy i'm seeing, well i just confessed so much to him, personal stuff about my past and as soon as i got off the phone i regretted it. he told me his life story too, but i wish i would have kept my mouth shut and i know in the back of my head there is no reason to be stressing out over it, but i just don't ever want to talk to him again. I feel like i can redeem myself by steering away from him. also, i've finally realized that the guy that i was interested in that i e-mail all the time is not worth investing emotion and i wonder why i get involved with things that just cause me heartache! i've drank almost two pots of coffee tonight and i don't know why, i don't want to lay down to sleep bc then all i will do is lay there and dwell on these things, not that i'm not dwelling on them now, but i don't know. i'm just rambling on, i just have to get this stuff off my chest. why do i care so much about guys and what they think about me, why do i feel like i have to have a man in my life? i don't really need answers to those questions, like i said...i'm just venting.
Posted by kara lynne on December 18, 2003, at 2:47:46
In reply to just venting....too much coffee tonight., posted by st@cy on December 17, 2003, at 23:01:50
hi stacey,
don't worry, it's rarely as bad as we think it is. And if it is, you don't need to talk to him again--although he might wonder why. At least you're learning what feels like too much to divulge to someone at first. I'm always having to figure those things out the hard way.And so this other guy isn't worth the energy you've expended, just be glad you aren't getting out of a four year relationship with some guy that you could spend the whole rest of your life regretting. That's my challenge.
And one more thing: Don't drink so much coffee so late at night, girl!
Hope you're feeling better.
This is the end of the thread.
Psycho-Babble Social | Extras | FAQ
Dr. Bob is Robert Hsiung, MD,
bob@dr-bob.org
Script revised: February 4, 2008
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/cgi-bin/pb/mget.pl
Copyright 2006-17 Robert Hsiung.
Owned and operated by Dr. Bob LLC and not the University of Chicago.