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Posted by emilyguen on February 20, 2005, at 2:24:24
hi... i am feeling so devastated. i have never been so sure, so in love. and she broke up w/ me this afternoon, saying she loves me but wants to be single and doesn't have the energy to work on "us"... i don't want depression to come crashing in again. but mostly i just want her back. i feel so helpless.
i don't want advice... i know that a relationship can't work when one person is not ready to work on it. but i would appreciate random acts of emotional kindness to help me through this devastation. i can't fathom going back to work on monday. i can't picture ever being happy again or trusting love. i can't see how to make any meaning out of this. i feel unlovable, dejected, angry, and hopeless.
sigh...
Posted by alexandra_k on February 20, 2005, at 2:51:31
In reply to breaking heart, posted by emilyguen on February 20, 2005, at 2:24:24
Hey there. Do you want a hug?
(((emilyguen))) - only if wanted.
I am sorry.
It sounds like things are pretty hard for you at the moment.
Welcome to Babble.
I hope you find lots of kindness and support here.
It sounds like you are a wonderful
Caring
Sensitive person.
Hang in there.You may have heard this before, I can't remember where I heard it.
If you love something set it free
If it was meant to be it will come back to you.Maybe she just needs some time
Or maybe it was not meant to be
But you will meet someone someday
Who loves you like you love her.
I hope you are okay.
Welcome.
Posted by PhoenixGirl on February 20, 2005, at 3:15:39
In reply to Re: breaking heart » emilyguen, posted by alexandra_k on February 20, 2005, at 2:51:31
I understand what heartbreak and despair feel like. *hugs* I hope that you heal.
Posted by emilyguen on February 20, 2005, at 3:26:37
In reply to Re: breaking heart » emilyguen, posted by alexandra_k on February 20, 2005, at 2:51:31
oooooh, thanks much for your kind words, alexandria and phoenixgirl...
one good thing is that i am surrounded by incredible loving people--most of whom are asleep right now! so many many thanks for your cyber-caring. i think i will try to sleep a little too.yes, i do love her enough to let her go... though my deepest dream right now is that she will return when she's ready.
i do so want to be loved as much as i love her. i see how it's possible in theory. i will trudge through this holding the possibility of healing in my heart.
thanks...
Posted by gardenergirl on February 20, 2005, at 7:29:26
In reply to Re: breaking heart, posted by emilyguen on February 20, 2005, at 3:26:37
Sending you chocolate wishes for a healing heart.
Take care,
gg
Posted by Jai Narayan on February 25, 2005, at 15:19:15
In reply to Re: breaking heart » emilyguen, posted by gardenergirl on February 20, 2005, at 7:29:26
I am so sorry you are in pain.
that kind of heartbreak is so hard.
I have been through that as well.How are you doing now...
I got to this post a little late.
I send you ((((HUGS))))
please keep in touch
Ja*
Posted by emilyguen on March 2, 2005, at 13:27:44
In reply to Re: breaking heart...how are you now?, posted by Jai Narayan on February 25, 2005, at 15:19:15
Thanks, Ja...
i am so sad.
can't believe she would do this to me.
so hard to function.> I am so sorry you are in pain.
> that kind of heartbreak is so hard.
> I have been through that as well.
>
> How are you doing now...
> I got to this post a little late.
> I send you ((((HUGS))))
> please keep in touch
> Ja*
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