Psycho-Babble Social Thread 533544

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What is your worst fear?

Posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

1. me

2.I have terrified of DRAINS! when i was kid the pool was drained and i was on it, it almost sucked me to the bottem. I never but my foot anywhere near the drain in the shower.

3.Having a feeling there is a presence in the room. (not psychically) -spirit

-God-

4.Studduring in frount of millions of people, even though that would never happen that would be really humuliating.

Also Yellow Jackets.

Well lets talk about it.

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by octopusprime on July 25, 2005, at 23:25:55

In reply to What is your worst fear?, posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

worst fears:

1. of having to move back home with mom and dad
2. of disgrace
3. of fall from grace
4. of not being able to conceive
5. of conceiving
6. of failure
7. of success

 

Re: What is your worst fear?--LIFE!!! (nm)

Posted by Carolina on July 25, 2005, at 23:30:19

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by octopusprime on July 25, 2005, at 23:25:55

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by crazy teresa on July 25, 2005, at 23:54:49

In reply to What is your worst fear?, posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

That I will have to bury my husband.

That I will have to bury another child.

That I will act like my mother.

 

Boy have I got a list!!!

Posted by thuso on July 26, 2005, at 0:32:26

In reply to What is your worst fear?, posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

1. Loosing control (of anything) - why I've never done drugs, don't drink alcohol, and hate any medicine that messes with my head

2. Failing at anything

3. Not being the best at what I start

4. Being alone for the rest of my life (i.e. not married)

5. Needles (doctors and nurses LOVE to stick needles in me) :-(

6. Talking/sharing - why you won't see much personal stuff about me, but rather mostly analytical statements - but wait! This is all personal! aaahhhh!!!!!!!!

7. I could go on and on and on and on and on....

Isn't is just soooooo fun to have irrational fears? ;-) Darn DNA!!!

 

Re: Boy have I got a list!!!

Posted by Phillipa on July 26, 2005, at 0:52:32

In reply to Boy have I got a list!!!, posted by thuso on July 26, 2005, at 0:32:26

How about
1. Being Blocked

2.Going to sleep

3.Waking up

4.Do I want to work

5.Can I work

6.I want to go back to nursing

7.Won't be good pnurse anymore. me too could go on and on. Fondly, Phillipa

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by Carolina on July 26, 2005, at 10:14:22

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by crazy teresa on July 25, 2005, at 23:54:49

Hey crazy t-i'm truly sorry to hear about the loss of a child. i couldn't imagine. FYI-i don't want to ever be like my "mother" either-im crazy enough where im at -u take care!!!

 

Re: What is your worst fear? » rjlockhart98

Posted by Damos on July 26, 2005, at 17:28:56

In reply to What is your worst fear?, posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

Okay, honestly.

That someone might want to try and love me.

Got plenty of others too but really needed to admit that one.

 

Re: What is your worst fear? » Damos

Posted by Carolina on July 26, 2005, at 19:36:55

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear? » rjlockhart98, posted by Damos on July 26, 2005, at 17:28:56

i understand and ur not alone-carolina

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by sleepygirl on July 26, 2005, at 22:18:08

In reply to What is your worst fear?, posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

Gee I've got lots

1) that everyone will hate me
2) that I won't marry my fiance
3) that I will marry my fiance and many other things will stay the same
4) that I will fail utterly and completely in my job
5) that my therapist hates me
6) bankruptcy
7) illness
8) death

I'm SUCH a barrel of laughs!!

 

oh, and definitely acting like my mother!! (nm)

Posted by sleepygirl on July 26, 2005, at 22:19:48

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by sleepygirl on July 26, 2005, at 22:18:08

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by Deneb on July 26, 2005, at 22:50:12

In reply to What is your worst fear?, posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

My fears seem to change depending on mood...geez, it seems like everything about me is unstable!

I can sometimes be very afraid of:

1. IRL interactions with people, esp. small talk

2. Spiders and other bugs (except when I'm dissecting them or need to work with them in an experiment)

3. Failing things

4. Dying/losing control

5. Sometimes injuries and blood (makes me faint), oh ya and needles (sometimes)

Other times I'm not afraid at all...go figure!

Deneb

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2005, at 2:31:55

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by Deneb on July 26, 2005, at 22:50:12

that everybody would prefer it if i had never existed

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by spriggy on July 27, 2005, at 12:47:53

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2005, at 2:31:55

Here's my list:

1) of suffocating. Yes, I have the fear that I will just suddenly stop breathing.

2) that one of my children will die.

3) that I will end up like either of my parent's- living a defeated, miserable, bitter life.

4) that I will not accomplish all the things God has planned for me

5) that I will get really fat

6) that they will ban all chocolate in the US

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by spriggy on July 27, 2005, at 12:49:37

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by spriggy on July 27, 2005, at 12:47:53

Funny if you read my last two becuase in a sense, they contradict each other. LOL

But i forget a few more:

* Spiders
* airplanes
* heights
* those nasty Cave Crickets you find in the South
*seafood

I think that pretty much covers it. LOL

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by Carolina on July 27, 2005, at 12:56:12

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by spriggy on July 27, 2005, at 12:47:53

hey spriggy-i agree.....if i started to bcome like either of my parents i would need ALLL the choc. in the US + some :-) Darn-then i'd be fat and that's a fear i have also. i could always share the choc. w/ya...LOL (we would then have 2 go 2 WW 2gether j/k) seriously though- a lot of people that i love are overweight but i guess from self-esteem isues i don't feel i wld be loved if i were overweight-does that make sense???-take care carolina

 

SPRIGGY-r we related!?! :-D (nm)

Posted by Carolina on July 27, 2005, at 12:58:04

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by spriggy on July 27, 2005, at 12:49:37

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by Sonya on July 27, 2005, at 14:32:22

In reply to What is your worst fear?, posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

Terrorist attacks
War
Anthrax
Epidemics
Getting old (but one might say I'm already old)
Something *bad* happening to my children

I'm sure I could think of more.

 

Re: What is your worst fear? » alexandra_k

Posted by Damos on July 27, 2005, at 17:04:43

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2005, at 2:31:55

Okay, well you better give us another one because I am one person who can testify to being very, very glad you exist. And to being incredibly proud, honoured and privileged to be your friend =0)

 

Re: What is your worst fear? » Damos

Posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2005, at 18:02:59

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear? » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on July 27, 2005, at 17:04:43

:-)
thanks.

i don't know that i can express it correctly... because it isn't just 'everyone' who matters, it is more the opinion of people i care about. maybe that it is that i'll really really care about / need someone and they will just wish that i never existed. or maybe not even to that extent. indifference. maybe that would be enough.

don't mind me ;-)

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2005, at 18:04:21

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear? » Damos, posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2005, at 18:02:59

which isn't to say that you are in the 'everyone' category... that wasn't what i meant at all. i just mean that i know that there are people who are glad that i'm here.

:-)

but that that isn't a counter-example to show me that my worst fear will never be realised.

thats why i changed it trying to capture it better...

 

Re: What is your worst fear? » alexandra_k

Posted by Damos on July 27, 2005, at 18:44:01

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2005, at 18:04:21

Don't worry, I know what you mean. Now back to work you. :-) Oh yeah, back to work me too.

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by sunny10 on July 28, 2005, at 8:53:44

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear? » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on July 27, 2005, at 18:44:01

that everyone I love will always leave me, like everyone has so far.

 

Re: What is your worst fear?

Posted by partlycloudy on July 28, 2005, at 9:42:06

In reply to What is your worst fear?, posted by rjlockhart98 on July 25, 2005, at 23:05:01

That I really am inferior to most people. Intellectually, creatively, hello! I still have some self esteem issues to work on.

 

Re: What is your worst fear? » partlycloudy

Posted by Damos on July 29, 2005, at 0:36:47

In reply to Re: What is your worst fear?, posted by partlycloudy on July 28, 2005, at 9:42:06

Being in the 'self esteem issues' club doesn't feel nearly so bad when you know that the other members are such lovely people.


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