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Posted by lynn970 on September 17, 2005, at 17:42:32
Going throulgh a midlife crisis. He is an extremely attractive man. He is now 40 years old and has started going to the gym. He is really getting buff. The six pack is really starting to take shape. I started going to the gym, but life happens and I cant seem to make it there often.
I pray he is not going through a midlife crisis. The other day he wanted a shirt from Ambrocombi (sure it is misspelled). When we started dating years ago, he was not interested in name brands.
I am going to have to get buff too. I just wont cook. We'll go to the gym and eat salads and my kids will eat ....maybe... take out.
Posted by spriggy on September 17, 2005, at 18:07:34
In reply to I hope my husband is not....., posted by lynn970 on September 17, 2005, at 17:42:32
How long have you been married?
I am sure your husband loves you dearly and you have nothing to worry about it.
My husband often feels "insecure" about me and is concerned I'll run off on a white stallion with Mr. Good looks over him some day.
What I can't seem to make him realize is that he's the greatest man I've ever known and no ones "looks" could change how much I love him.
I bet your man feels the same way about you!
Posted by Phillipa on September 17, 2005, at 18:40:03
In reply to Re: I hope my husband is not....., posted by spriggy on September 17, 2005, at 18:07:34
Men are funny. But maybe someone he knows another man died or was diagnosed with something bad and he's taking care of himself. I know that when I was around 40 I started excercising more and buying better clothes. Figured it was the last chance I had to feel good about myself. Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by lynn970 on September 17, 2005, at 22:47:04
In reply to Re: I hope my husband is not....., posted by Phillipa on September 17, 2005, at 18:40:03
Oh my God, Phillipa, that is exactly what it is!!!! A co-worker of his was diagnosed with cancer. The young guy is only 36 years old.
Posted by lynn970 on September 17, 2005, at 22:48:11
In reply to Re: I hope my husband is not....., posted by spriggy on September 17, 2005, at 18:07:34
Spriggy, He says that he does not want anyone else. I just need to not worry. Hey maybe the Lexapro is starting to work. lol.
Posted by Phillipa on September 17, 2005, at 22:55:45
In reply to Re: I hope my husband is not....., posted by lynn970 on September 17, 2005, at 22:47:04
Lynn, Glad I could help. That was a self esteem booster. Really thanks! Fondly, Phillipa
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