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Bad mood, hindered life, bad coping skills?

Posted by rjlockhart on October 8, 2006, at 14:13:24

I have class tommorow, again, which i know is good for me but i dont know really where i am going.

I am in bad mood right now because i dont know, i dont want to wake up tommorow. But Who cares, know one but me, because its my danm life, exept for my mom who needs to get her *ss off my case. I swear i am up to H^E^R^E about moving or joining the miltary. Well i feel that i cant really control my danm life cant see my doctor by myself with out a family outburst. Needless i say more, even though i could talk all night.

I feel i want to let out all my frustration but i cant.

Can you talk about a pre-life crisis. Then if this is bad wait till mid life.

Matt

 

Re: Bad mood, hindered life, bad coping skills? » rjlockhart

Posted by laima on October 8, 2006, at 14:13:25

In reply to Bad mood, hindered life, bad coping skills?, posted by rjlockhart on October 7, 2006, at 0:32:00


Matt,

Over and over so many people claim mid-life is when things get easier- please don't think that if you are struggeling now that that equals worse later. (And what exactly is "mid-life" anyway?) Once you get some distance from your mom, some real independence your world will change, I strongly suspect.

You mentioned you are working- are you able to sock some of that away in anticipation of a change?

Laima

 

Re: Bad mood, hindered life, bad coping skills?

Posted by laima on October 8, 2006, at 14:13:25

In reply to Re: Bad mood, hindered life, bad coping skills? » rjlockhart, posted by laima on October 7, 2006, at 9:25:28


Well here's a thought- do you have your own bank account set up, and I mean just you, no other names on it? I'm serious, that would be a fine thing to get started on if you don't. A simple savings or checking. And if you look at the different banks, it doesn't take much to get started. Your own money=major step to real independence, real choices- and you would be in full control.

 

Re: Bad mood, hindered life, bad coping skills?

Posted by Phillipa on October 8, 2006, at 14:13:25

In reply to Re: Bad mood, hindered life, bad coping skills?, posted by laima on October 7, 2006, at 9:29:02

If I could go back in time that's what I'd do. And mid-life was great old age is not. Love Phillipa

 

Excellent suggestion (nm) » laima

Posted by gardenergirl on October 8, 2006, at 19:20:56

In reply to Re: Bad mood, hindered life, bad coping skills?, posted by laima on October 7, 2006, at 9:29:02


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