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Posted by Klavot on February 27, 2007, at 8:05:46
My parents both have a drinking problem. I love them when they're sober but hate them when they're drunk. I attribute many of my social developmental problems to their drinking.
I live with my mother, so luckily I don't have to put up with my father's drinking. I have a lot of fights with my mother when she gets drunk and say terrible things to her which I regret afterwards.
I feel trapped. I wish I could move out, but it's not that easy to just move out while you are still studying.
I wish alcohol had never been discovered.
Klavot
Posted by Phillipa on February 27, 2007, at 11:17:48
In reply to Drunks for parents, posted by Klavot on February 27, 2007, at 8:05:46
Klavot I'm so sorry how long before you can move out. I'm sure you love your parents anyway. Love Phillipa so sad for you and them.
Posted by Kath on February 27, 2007, at 12:43:40
In reply to Drunks for parents, posted by Klavot on February 27, 2007, at 8:05:46
Yeah - alcohol can cause so much pain.
Hopefully your Mom won't remember the things you say that you're upset about if she's that drunk.
Al-Anon meetings are for folks who have alcoholics in their family. I haven't gone for years, but at one time found them VERY supportive & helpful. I went 'cuz my son was using drugs other than alcohol, but the issues were the same.
They help YOU cope. If you think you might like to try one, your local hospital could probably link you up with one, or Mental Health organization, or Google it. If that doesn't work & you want to pursue it, please ask me here for help.My thoughts are with you. My Dad was an alcoholic. My life wasn't that bad, but I DO know what a huge impact it can have on one's life.
hugs, Kath
Posted by widget on March 4, 2007, at 7:43:52
In reply to Re: Drunks for parents » Klavot, posted by Kath on February 27, 2007, at 12:43:40
I agree to give Alanon a try. I have gone and they were very supportive during a very hard time in my life. I was reluctant and afraid to go but it all worked out. The people there will have similar stories and will understand what you are going through. Please take care of yourself. This is NOT your fault. I wish you only the best, widget
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