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Posted by Deneb on April 24, 2008, at 21:52:03
I fantasize about having sex with tomato guy. LOL
I wish I knew whether or not he was attracted to me.
I'm going to lose some weight to become more attractive.
Would it totally scare tomato guy away if I hint about wanting to have sex with him? LOL
Sigh. Tomato guy. He has a super sexy name. He's a huge bookworm, not too social, very introverted. Would tomato guy like to have sex with me one day? (Not in the near future of course, I've thinking about in like a year or something.)
I wouldn't make any moves on him tho, not until I was sure he wanted them.
I'm pretty sure tomato guy is a sexual guy, I saw he took several sex quizzes on facebook. LOL One said he was like a Catholic schoolgirl, virginal on the outside and wild inside. LOL
((((tomato guy)))))
We sat next to each other today and also talked before work. He's really good at his job. He takes his job seriously. I really like that.
Posted by Phillipa on April 24, 2008, at 22:43:15
In reply to OK, I think I'm definitely not asexual LOL, posted by Deneb on April 24, 2008, at 21:52:03
Deneb start dating first one step at a time. Friends first. Love Phillipa
Posted by Dinah on April 25, 2008, at 8:41:15
In reply to OK, I think I'm definitely not asexual LOL, posted by Deneb on April 24, 2008, at 21:52:03
I'm glad you're getting in touch with that side of you, Deneb.
It sounds as if you and Tomato guy are getting to know each other in a sensible way. It's nice that you get the added bonus of experiencing those new feelings. :)
Posted by Dinah on April 25, 2008, at 8:42:08
In reply to Re: OK, I think I'm definitely not asexual LOL » Deneb, posted by Dinah on April 25, 2008, at 8:41:15
(It sounds as if Facebook adds a whole new dimension to the dating process.)
Posted by Kath on April 27, 2008, at 18:41:05
In reply to OK, I think I'm definitely not asexual LOL, posted by Deneb on April 24, 2008, at 21:52:03
Hi Deneb,
Maybe I'm just REALLY old-fashioned, but I think hinting about sex when you're not even 'going out' or haven't even gone out is not a great idea.
I'd suggest you talk with your therapist about it.
My experience has been that letting things evolve slowly & gradually has had good results.
But then, my husband & I started out as friends, so it was an 'evolving' type of relationship anyhow. This is such a nice relationship, that I tend to think of it as a good 'blueprint'.I'm glad you & TG sat near & also talked.
Hugs, Kath
Posted by Kath on April 27, 2008, at 18:42:21
In reply to OK, I think I'm definitely not asexual LOL, posted by Deneb on April 24, 2008, at 21:52:03
Deneb - ditto to what Dinah said also.
Glad you've got some clarification regarding your confused feelings about sexuality.
:-) Kath
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