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Posted by Angela2 on September 18, 2013, at 12:57:33
I really really hate my life. I don't know why I'm cracking up today, but I am. No one from my old job has contacted me. I have tried c ontacting a few people. Who I thought were friends. No one is around. But it seems like everyone knows I quit my new job. All because I told one person. I feel sick right now. I hate what happened there. I hate feeling like he has power over me. I don't want him to. I hate him. :(
I don't know if I told this, but I hooked up with a total sociopath at my old job. That's why I left.
I just feel so sick. So sick. I feel like he has a hold on me even though I blocked him on Facebook.
I don't think I should talk to his friends anymore. They're all red flags. :(
I am in so much pain.
Because i quit my job. Because it sucked. Because I quit the other job to replace that job. Because I just am, in pain. Because I hooked up with someone I worked with and it sucked. Because I feel like I ruined my life. Because I feel like my pain makes him glad. I feel like, I just need to get away. I value my privacy so much. And where is it?
Posted by Partlycloudy on September 18, 2013, at 13:07:53
In reply to :( Help, posted by Angela2 on September 18, 2013, at 12:57:33
Nobody is worthy of that kind of power. I learned that very painfully, and several times. I am going to take the plunge here and call the guy at the job a LOSER because how you felt treated. (Shoot me if I over stepped boundaries here.)
And, unfortunately, many many times, friends made while working with them end up to be Out of Sight, out of Mind. I only say this because I have had several jobs since moving to where I live today, and my friends have turned out to be the ones I have met socially.
I am so sorry you are left feeling hurt. Those are perfectly valid, and Poo! On those who don't return texts or messages. It's their loss, but I know that is of little consolation.
Why can't there be life coaching for this stuff? That friends come and often go with the job? And relationships for many of us do not end with butterflies and fairies, everyone all friendly and warm. That, for me anyway, has been b*llsh*t.
I am with you, if that counts.
PC
Posted by Angela2 on September 18, 2013, at 17:28:19
In reply to Re: :( Help » Angela2, posted by Partlycloudy on September 18, 2013, at 13:07:53
Hey, thanks for being there for me PC, I truly appreciate it. I'm doing ok now. I'm doing better. I talked to some people, friends, in my life, and family. I'm probably going to hang out at my friend R's house later tonight. I also went to see my counselor. Also, really, thanks for being there for me and responding. And, he IS a loser. No need to apologize for any of that.
Posted by alexandra_k on September 18, 2013, at 17:30:33
In reply to Re: :( Help » Partlycloudy, posted by Angela2 on September 18, 2013, at 17:28:19
I'm sorry to hear things turned out badly at work. I hate those awkward social situations. I hate gossipy people, too. Ugh.
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