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Posted by Phil on February 21, 2014, at 16:17:23
you know what a never ending topic for bipolars is? when to tell. you are on a date with a new girl. you're thinking, before we order, after appetizers, after the meal or in the car, etc.
it's a legitimate question because the response may be really bad. when i was first diagnosed i ran an ad in the local music rag. not my thing but what the heck. hey she wants to talk, we do and she called me. like old friends talking.
i said, listen i'm new to this but i don't want to waste your time so, i was recently diagnosed with bipolar. you mother f*cker my friend has bipolar and she has DRIVEN ME OUT OF MY MIND. CAN'T YOU F*CKING PEOPLE SHUT UP? YOU FREAK i'll get a cab. oh one second, i write a lot and need to ask, is **** spelled with c or k?
both responses were almost identical.#3 fiction...wow once again these people are great talkers. this girl very honest. when asked what she does for fun she said sex 24/7. i asked her if breaks were allowed for things like food. maybe i should call work and tell them i found a better job.
we sat on the couch talking. to be fair, she said, i know this is odd but are you bipolar? oh PLEASE I'M A MAN NOT A MOUSE. screaming crazies..i have a friend that's bipolar AND HE'S JUST F*CKED.
well, i am bipolar and i hate people like you.
she left. i was going to flag her down but what's the use.
COULD YOU STOP BY SOMETIME AND HAVE SEX?
dear diary. had a smashing time talking to ladies from the chronicle. i only have one left to kill.
Posted by SLS on February 22, 2014, at 0:36:58
In reply to when to tell a first date you are bipolar, posted by Phil on February 21, 2014, at 16:17:23
I would probably wait for a few dates to disclose your medical condition in order to give your prospect time to like you first. Sometimes more - sometimes less. I would not wait too long, though, as this may seem like dishonesty or a betrayal of trust. Disclosure on the third date seems about right to me. I disclosed my neurological condition on a first date once. The woman was gorgeous, intelligent, and kind. I didn't want to scare her away, but, I was determined to be honest. I ended up marrying her.
- Scott
Posted by Phillipa on February 22, 2014, at 9:21:20
In reply to Re: when to tell a first date you are bipolar » Phil, posted by SLS on February 22, 2014, at 0:36:58
Scott I didn't know you have been married. I knew you had a website with the picture of very lovely looking lady. Was she your wife? PJ
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