Posted by harry on April 10, 1999, at 16:57:05
In reply to misbehavior, posted by Dr. Bob on April 10, 1999, at 12:20:42
Well said v.
Doc...based on what you have posted here...i think what you may consider "mishaving" is actually "expression of self".
You may have have better said..
.."I will have to find a way to keep people .. from ...".. getting better.One cannot shine a diamond with fancy velvet.
One uses a rough stone.
Interactions...ALL interactions..are experiences
of change, growth, development, and learning.Life is NOT always "nice".
I stand by every word i posted.
Beware those that accept and condone evil for their own selfish puposes..as altrusitic at they may seem.
After over 13 years of Psychotic Depression...i am now...OFF all psych meds...lost 10 pounds in approx 10 days.
I think pretty straight. I have plans and hopes and dreams.
And i am never..and i mean NEVER EVER ..going back to where i was.And i did NOT get here..by "behaving" as others would like....in fact..THAT IS PART OF WHY I GOT SICK.
Like everything..it is a long story..however..
If there is any one thing that assisted me..it was getting to the point...
inside..where i FINALLY said.."Oh yea?...well FYCK that..and FYCK you"Which is EXACTLY the way anyone needs to be treated who is..literally..willing to see you DEAD..in order to maintain THEIR status quo.
Let he who has ears hear.
I will not be the only you hear this from.
Genuine caring involves deep EMOTION.
It is easy to be the "peacemaker" when the actions..AND the CONSEQUENCES..affect you little.
Take Care.
poster:harry
thread:4030
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/19990401/msgs/4667.html