and what about the children?

Posted by JanetR on March 15, 2000, at 17:10:32

In reply to Re: Anna P, posted by JanetR on March 15, 2000, at 15:53:49

> > My husband won't even admit I'm ill... he thinks I'm just a bit low... But I've been making him read this site to make him realise.
> >
> > Luckily, he's not so worried about my weight - He says he'd like me slim, but, then, he has a very low sex drive anyway, so maybe he doesn't notice my body, fat or thin.
> > His opinions about ym meds are.. well, he works with pharmisists, so tends to come home, tell me how bad the meds are for me, and sulk..
> >
> > No advice there is there?? But if you ever want a hubby moan, feel free to mail me!!
> >
> > Nikki
> But can you blame them. I'd probably be the same if the shoe was on the other foot. That's why I just want to get well. I hate being like this . Jan
I feel guilty the whole time that somehow I've shortchanged them. I never have the energy to bake a cake, whip up a fancy-dress costume or take them out.I dread it when they have friends over and I hate taking them to parties ( social phobia). I'm always tired and grumpy. What kind of memories are they going to have of me . Like I said , I hate myself and I hate this darn illness. Jan

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Feeling better (thanks!).. But husband problems NIkkiT 3/15/00
Re: Feeling better (thanks!).. But husband problems ChrisK 3/15/00
Re: Husband problems Anna P. 3/15/00
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Re: Anna P JanetR 3/15/00
and what about the children? JanetR 3/15/00
Re: Nikki Cam W. 3/15/00
husband problems (long) allisonm 3/15/00
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Re: Husband problems bob 3/16/00
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Mayo Clinic web page/article michael 3/17/00

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