Posted by Mark H. on April 15, 2000, at 12:58:25
In reply to Re: snoitpursid, posted by Cam W. on April 15, 2000, at 3:13:14
This is the most active and useful forum I have participated in ever. What I have gained here is not only an amazing amount of anecdotal and technical information and wonderful, thoughtful, mature and professional-quality support as a sufferer and fellow seeker, and a chance to share my experiences and tell my story, but also excellent guidance on how to be a better forum community member, which I am still learning about with each passing day. boB, in particular, has helped me tremendously, both on and off-forum. Cam's advice has always been level and compassionate. Cass, April, bob, Dr. Bob and too many more to mention continue to provide feedback that helps me see myself more clearly, helps me to understand what is helpful to post and what is not, and everyone I've interacted with here has helped nudge me lovingly towards greater openness and honesty. Hopefully, over time I'll make fewer mistakes and write more clearly from my heart as well as my experience.
This huge forum is a great service and establishes a community that is otherwise lacking in a lot of our lives. I think we have an obligation to teach as well as to support and share. A few basic rules are essential. I think "be civil or don't post" is reasonable and fair. Perhaps the best response to an objectionable poster would be a stock paragraph on what being civil means in this forum, and what the consequence will be if this basic rule isn't observed. If the poster is willing to attempt this minimal level of conformity, great. If s/he doesn't get it, then they should probably look elsewhere on the web for a place to express their opinions.
You (Dr. Bob) moderate with a very light hand as it is. I appreciate your moderation as well as your sensitivity.
Many thanks,
Mark H.
poster:Mark H.
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