Posted by vicky on May 4, 2002, at 17:23:54
In reply to Re: Ugly.., posted by LiLAngelJenna on May 4, 2002, at 2:06:46
> What helped you from feeling that way or accepting yourself? I cant stay away from them or I would.. Im living here now so its impossible to avoid him.. he gets in my face or will make a random comment about it.. So did people actually tell you that your 'ugly' or did you just FEEL that way??? See, Im in a different place where I have him telling me that I am like its a fact.. I've said looks are an opinion and he'll be like No you are ugly and keep going when I break down and cry.. I think They have the problem to be so Cruel.. but I want to know what I can do to feel better despite them.
hi lil jenna. People at school did call me ugly although some said
I was quite cute!! I believed the latter, and felt
that yes, I was actually very ugly. Thus I was
very paranoid, and angry, and kept to myself alot
I found that as you grow older, you become less
sensitive to callous remarks (the meds help a great deal)
How old is your brother. He sounds like he is
very mean and unhappy.It also sounds like
he needs to be on some kind of medication for
his anger that he is taking out on you!!!
Talk to a therapist, or you pscyh doctor and try to get
the family to get into family counselling!!
most of all remember it won't always be this
way. Seasons change, and time marches on.
poster:vicky
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