Posted by Arrianna on September 10, 2003, at 12:09:20
In reply to Re: SOCIOPATHs....Can they be treated?? » Sarahh, posted by KimberlyDi on September 9, 2003, at 9:22:20
S,
I agree with K. Sounds like you've been hanging in there, hoping he'll get better. But, unfortunately, unless he's motivated to get help, nothing will change.
After 11 years (wow!!), I'd assume that you don't want to give up on him that easily. And it sounds that if he finds the right med. (like sadmom's daughter), he could get better.
So, I'd ask yourself: do you love him Enough to stand by his side, and support him through treatment if he takes it? Are you willing to go the distance for him in the hopes he'll change and get better?
I'm sure after 11years, you've already thought about this. Yet, I'd really urge you to think about what is best for YOU. From your post, you sound tired. It's got to be exhausting for you, so please do what's right for you and focus on your needs, too.
Please keep us posted. We're here if you need us.Arrianna
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