Posted by cookie0876 on November 27, 2003, at 12:04:44
In reply to Empower Me To Get Out Of This Doomed Relationship! » Robert Jose Smith, posted by KimberlyDi on November 26, 2003, at 9:14:10
Gosh, that soundd like me. I'm the girl, though, unfortunately. She needs help. I used to be ambitious and self-sufficient, and after a period of drug use I am currently completely useless. My boyfriend who gave me the drug in the first place has now broken up with me and said I'm totally different than when we met. I am depressed, and I went over there one night to find him doing drugs with friends and got upset all over again throwing a major fit and he called the police on me. Of course, they just told me to go home. I am trying to be independant and get my life back together - trying to forget him. Sometimes the best thing to do is break up and be alone for awhile. She'll probably be forced to get her life together, and so will you. Who knows maybe someday you'll get back together once you no longer need each other. Not everyone is totally bad, and usually not one person is to blame. There have had to been some good times. Just let each other go for awhile. I've decided to do just that. She'll be more appealing when she has her own life back in order, and so will you. And if y'all find that you are better off apart, you'll be happier that way too. It's hard to let go, I know...
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