Posted by snarley on February 24, 2004, at 13:57:08
In reply to Re: Fluoxetine and Alchohol--please help, posted by inthegloaming on February 24, 2004, at 9:33:32
You said this was your first "sexual" experience. How old are you, and how old was the person who was taking advantage of you in your drunk/drugged state? You said you were sleepy/spaced-out and off in a different place--did you say no or try to get them to stop?
Also, how well did you know this person? If you considered them a good friend, maybe you should re-evaluate that. It's good that they said they felt sorry about it, but that could just be "damage control" type behavior. I'm sure they dont want to get in trouble.
I once had a "friend" (a neighbor in my dorm who i had known for maybe 6 months, seemed like a good guy) who took slight advantage of me one evening when i fell asleep watching a movie with him. I woke up to find my bra had been unsnapped and he had his hands all over my chest. I kicked him out of my room and havent talked to him since. If you're young-ish (like i suspect you are--and probably so was the "friend") you need to let them know that kind of behavior isnt tolerated by normal people...maybe next time they have the opportunity with someone else they will think twice.
I have been on a lot of antidepressants and such in the past that have affected my alcohol tolerance (since high school) and have always found that it's better to do a dry run once i've been on something for a while to figure out how much i can drink and still stay relatively normal--BEFORE i go out and drink with other people. The stuff i'm on right now i can drink maybe a beer every hour and a half, any more and i start getting sloshed. It's a really good idea to know your limits so you don't accidentally put yourself in a situation like that again.
Young guys are horny by nature, and when drunk they are even more so. You need to keep your wits about you and be able to say no when things go too far.
Snarley
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