Posted by LynneDa on February 27, 2004, at 13:47:40
In reply to Re: sex complaints, posted by shadows721 on February 27, 2004, at 13:36:19
Hi Shadows - YES, I do agree with you & have the same issue!
The creative, kinky stuff doesn't work for me either. I'm 40, newly married for the 2nd time, have always had an above average drive, so is that an important part of my relationship & personal well-being - you bet! But, on the other hand I'm just SO glad not to be angry, sad and anxious, I am not as upset by it.
On an encouraging note, after 4 months on Lex, I am able to get there maybe once every 4 or 5 times as long as my husband holds back for as long as I need him to. I do enjoy the actual act more, now that I don't always have orgasm as a goal.
Additionally, many people on this board say Wellbutrin helps. It sounds like you are not wanting to add a med. I don't either. But, if it doesn't improve in a bit more time, I may get to that point. So far, my doc doesn't want to give it to me.
Hang in there!
~ Lynne
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