Posted by King Vultan on June 10, 2004, at 8:53:17
In reply to Please help me., posted by mattsit on June 10, 2004, at 7:38:33
> Heres my story. I have a history of alcohol abuse (drinking more than 24 drinks a week sometimes, etc). Two weeks ago I got married, and as a result went on the honeymoon. I probably drank everyday, no more than 6 drinks, but upon arrival back home, I went to work, and of course am trying to catch up. The anxiety I feel is too much to handle. Im wondering if this is alcohol withdrawal, and wondering how long it is going to last. The obsessive thoughts are killing me....Im worried my wife will find out about me meeting up with an ex girlfriend 6 months ago, and end our marriage on me. I will never again break my vow to my wife, but im freaking out.
I'm not an expert on alcohol abuse, but I do live in Milwaukee, which is the most alcohol infused city I have ever seen. By the standards around here, 24 drinks/week doesn't seem like an outrageous amount, but I suppose you might objectively be classified as a heavy drinker. Regardless, if your alcohol consumption is causing you problems, it doesn't matter whether it's 6 drinks a week or 6 drinks a day; it's in your best interest to seek some help.Many people who have alcohol problems have other issues that they may or may not be aware of, and they are essentially using the alcohol to self medicate. One of the more common is simply to reduce anxiety and relax. As in everything, though, moderation is the key; while it is probably not a big deal to occasionally use alcohol for this purpose, if it becomes habitual, it suggests dependence on the alcohol, which is not at all a good thing. I don't know your exact reasons for drinking (or if you are sure, either), but if you suspect dependence or are concerned you might be abusing alcohol, I would seek a more learned opinion. It certainly does sound like you may have some anxiety issues, anyway, and I would suggest an evaluation by a mental health professional.
Todd
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