Posted by ron1953 on August 29, 2004, at 10:44:50
In reply to Can SSRI and SNRI sexual SE really wear off?, posted by KXo on August 27, 2004, at 10:30:09
As you've seen, effects and side-effects of meds vary tremendously from patient to patient. Sexual side-effects are common with many AD's. I'll share my personal experience with Prozac, Celexa, Lexapro and Effexor. The sexual side-effects of the first 3 were similar for me. My first AD was Prozac, which for a while (SSRI's are commonly known to "poop out" after continued use) had very beneficial effects for my depression. But I found the sexual side-effects distressing. I eventually realized my distress was a BIG part of the problem. When I finally decided that the benefits outweighed the sexual side-effects, something interesting happened. I accepted the "problem" and decided not to be overly distressed by it. The side-effect did subside to some degree and my new attitude actually helped my sex life. Lovemaking with my ex-wife lasted longer (she certainly didn't complain), the sex act became more enjoyable because I was less "orgasm oriented" and I did eventually climax, despite the Prozac. Bottom line is that the side-effect actually became a BENEFIT. Interesting, huh? With Effexor, I couldn't climax, period. I discontinued it for that reason and it wasn't helping the depression problem, either. Maybe a minor attitude adjustment on your part will help, as with my case. Good luck!
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