Posted by up'n'down on March 11, 2005, at 23:49:38
In reply to Re: Cubbybear and alexandra » up'n'down, posted by cubbybear on March 11, 2005, at 3:44:40
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> > Dear ones;
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> > I wish I could comfort you both with a great big mamma-hug that would make both of you feel warm and fuzzy.
> > I think you both are nice people, and that your situation at the time of your posting escalated into a head-to-head disagreement.
> > I was hoping Phillipa would pour out of her wisdom and compassion as she so often does. I offer my humble attempt make all things better. U'D
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> that's very kind of you, but I'm afraid that our differences went a bit deeper than what could be smoothed over with a "warm and fuzzy" Band-Aid.
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> I guess it just happens that once in a while, as in real life, someone will come along and post a message that, unintentionally, will push one of my hot buttons. In the end, however, I take it with a grain of salt since my overwhelming experience with Psychobabble has been positive and rewarding beyond any relationship I could have with a doctor or so-called "expert."
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> I may disagree strongly with Alexandra but I wouldn't consider her my adversary. All of us here constitute a cyberspace "family," and in every family, there's going to be an occasional argument between siblings.
> cubbybearYou found one of my major troubles getting along in this world. I can't handle disagreement or hurt and want to rush in and make things all better. You are so right-that life is going to have times of disagreement and troubles and hurt; I don't know why I think I'm responsible for it all, but I do, so I try to undo it. Sorry. U'D
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