Posted by mmcconathy on March 22, 2005, at 18:10:16
In reply to Re: it really hurts bad to be me. » mmcconathy, posted by ed_uk on March 22, 2005, at 17:21:39
I posted it too quick, i was going to post to that later, i had to go talk to my bank about billing address mistake.
> Full of confidence, then a mental psychosis of panic, what is to come, i have made myself this.
I don't believe you have made this. I just don't. I think it's a combination of brain chemistry and your experiences in your environment.
> Listen im sorry if i have frustrated you, my frutration is contagious, everone wants away from me.Now here I think you are doing something called projection. You may have heard of this psychology term. It's a defense mechanism people use when there is a feeling they have about themselves that is not one they like having, so the "project" that feeling onto others. The problem is, by putting that feeling onto others, it then reinforces your belief about yourself. So if you feel that you are not worth being around, that does not feel good inside. So you "project" that feeling/belief outward onto the other person...kind of like blaming them. Instead, you say "THEY don't want to be around me." That way, it takes the feeling out of you, but it reinforces to you that you are someone others don't want to be around. Does that make any sense? (I hope so, it's late here)
I appriciate these responses, because it addressed directly my problems, to who posted them. I really absorbed it, over and over, thanks.
Ed... ed ed ed, never have been mean at all, exept we used to compare medications, rerember, lol. Really thanks
I gotta run, and you all stay good.
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