Posted by allin on June 3, 2005, at 15:18:57
In reply to Re: wifes on effexor, how long does it take? » allin, posted by Phillipa on June 2, 2005, at 18:13:44
she stays with her friend, at least she is safe there, its not like she is doing anything destructive to herself aside from the occasional overdrinking, but at least she does it at a home, too bad its not ours, pretty loanly for me, but its not about me, she is the one that needs to focus on herself....she is mentally not capable of working on marriage or worrying about me at this point, its a tough spot, but i am more worried for her, my pain and sadness can not even amount to anything she is going through, the suppressed feelings of all those years are now in full force, boggling her mind, and even though she is older it fels like she is a little girl agian dealing with it just aas strong as the pain was when it was happening. she is trying, poor wife is such a trooper so strong, but this is way hard...i cant imagine. Again, any suggestions, do i keep calling her and supporting her or just let her fight throught this. I ask because it seems that even my support hurts the situation, like she feels so small when i am around or talking to her that she has a tough time dealing with the fact that she has had to leave a loving caring husband because of her f'ed up parents and past........
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