Posted by needesp on September 14, 2005, at 7:04:24
In reply to Bipolar and drug abuse..., posted by spriggy on September 13, 2005, at 23:04:29
> I think I need to try and understand bipolar a little better so I can understand my father a little better.
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> For whatever reason, although he is on Seroquel, Klonopin, Lexapro, and Lamictal, he seems to be in a constant Manic state.
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> As of late, he has not slept in FOUR entire days or nights. He went on a shopping spree (via internet) when he knew there was no money for rent.
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> He is now purchasing marijuana (and muscle relaxers) illegally.
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> I love my dad but this has been such a life long battle I have seen him struggle with. I am tired of it.
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> He is sick (physically and mentally). He doesn't see a psychiatrist- he only sees his regular GP.
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> He needs intense therapy, drug treatment (which is hard to do since he's a chronic pain sufferer!), and basically needs to learn some all around general "coping" skills.
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> Does BIPOLAR cause this type of behavior??
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> I want to be compassionate but as his daughter, I am soooo tired of his decisions effecting me, my mom, my sister negatively.
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> Frankly, I am sick of it and for the first time in my life, I have considered telling him to either get help or stay out of my life.
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> Man, I can't even believe I just wrote that.
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>HI Spriggy,
First of all I am not Bipolar. I am only someone who supports my son who has severe OCD and depression.
To feel frustration and even anger at the illness that is causing suffering in the family is totally normal and to express it (to others) can be very cathartic and freeing.
Its so obvious that you love your dad and your desire to understand his illness shows that love and committment.
I understand that when in a manic state those with Bipolar can have little if any insight into their behaviours and this can be very uncomfortable and trying for those who care. Not sleeping for days, spending sprees and drug abuse are classic (text book anyway) behaviours in a manic state.
It would be so much easier for all of you if he was under the care of a psychiatrist for his Bipolar.
Hang in there. I feel totally inadequate compared to others on this board but I do so understand how you are feeling
Keep well and stay strong
poster:needesp
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