Posted by Larry Hoover on May 13, 2006, at 21:00:56
In reply to The cycle goes like this- » Emily Elizabeth, posted by curtm on May 12, 2006, at 10:41:22
> When we do make l***, my mood is very (I mean VERY) complacently Dr. Jeckyl-like for about a week, but that's pushing it. I don't feel any triggers at all during this period.
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> Then I start feeling the Mr. Hyde mood starting to creep back. At two weeks, I start getting very irritable and making inderect remarks making l*** again. She says, "We just did did not long ago."I'm not sure I'm understanding what you're saying, curt. Two weeks since the one time, and none since?
> By three weeks time, I have become arrogant and more direct about it. By four weeks, her cycle has come, so there's another week.
Now four weeks since? And what's wrong with sex during menses?
> By five weeks I quit making comments and just keep it inside, still frustrated. At six weeks frustration start to subside. At seven weeks it doesn't bother me anymore.
Seven weeks since?
> BUT about eight weeks I start trying to ignore her that way because I don't want to go through the cycle again. I'm afraid to make l*** because it happens EVERY time!
You make love once in eight weeks, and you're surprised you're frustrated? Better get none than only a bit?
> It's NOT about how often we make l***, I just want the mood cycle to stop! That is why I am so concerned about it. Pleae help.I have read every post in the thread following this one, twice over, and I'm not sure I really understand you. Am I dense? Different? Densely different? Do you want to go to Babblemail? Do you want me to go to Babblemail?
Lar
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