Posted by bassman on June 24, 2006, at 8:38:57
In reply to Re: i hate my life » maddy4, posted by Phillipa on June 23, 2006, at 21:03:28
Maddy,
I think most people feel like you when they are at the apparent end of their marriage, they are in a great deal of emotional pain, and they are being blamed for everything. It is so typical-just everything seems so out of control and there is nothing in life that seems worthwhile. from your post, you don't seem to think you have a marriage-maybe in the sense there is no important emotional connection there for you. May I suggest: consider divorce seriously and either decide to do it-and then do it-or, have a long talk with your man after you've decided what you need out of the relationship. As much as it might not seem it now, your future is your choice, not anyone else's. You don't have to stay in a situation that is hurtful-but you will have to go through some painful periods to leave it and the panic won't help. But you can do it...and it sort of sounds like maybe that's your where you'd like to go right now. Whatever you choose, you can do it. Really. Best of luck.
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