Posted by yxibow on March 1, 2008, at 23:21:36
In reply to Suggestions for moving forward » your#1fan, posted by Racer on March 1, 2008, at 18:51:53
I think some of the suggestions above have merit.
I don't like to say, dump the doctor, it happens too much on here, but if you can't be treated for a symptom that is too high on your list of symptoms, then you, as an adult can seek a second opinion.
This means going to another doctor for an initial session. Plan well in advance with a written list of things to say. Be honest to the degree you feel comfortable with.
Remember, the doctor was following what he considered federal law. I had posted another thread on here similar to that. You can't be "fired" or committed for various things unless you actively commit suicide or harm other individuals generally.
But admitted continual abuse can also be a damper and while a doctor is required to keep you as a patient or refer you to another doctor, they can't risk their medical license giving you a controlled substance.
It isn't personal but it feels very personal. My doctor has gotten somewhat conservative, not because I have abused anything but because I'm sensitive to some medications and have had some negative consequences that our relationship has strained at times because he does not want to be blamed for unexplained and unexpected effects of things beyond his control with medication that he didn't invent but certainly has prescribed plenty of times. Its hard for me but I have had quite a long relationship with the doctor in question and I need to continue it.
In the same light, I don't know how long you have had a relationship, but if you do choose the route of a second opinion and it works for you, remember also that a relationship with a doctor, just like any relationship with any person takes time to build up, so do expect some time lag with a new practitioner.
Wish the best
-- Jay
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