Posted by Garnet71 on January 17, 2009, at 13:15:39
In reply to Welbutrin disaster, posted by rho on January 17, 2009, at 12:19:42
Hi rho,
You said you were dating him for 10 years. During any of this time, did you know him when he did not suffer from depression or bipolar?
I am concerned--if he is a surgeon, he could be a danger to patients in this manic state--a huge danger. Please think about that and consider intervening.
I've taking Wellbutrin several times. My family member with bipolar takes it-her pdoc said it is the best medication for bipolars because it doesn't stay in your system long. But yes, I can see how it could worsen mania. It is stimulating in general.
I'm sorry you are going through this. It's very clear you love and care about this person. I can't answer your questions, but others who are more educated or experienced may be able to offer suggestions or answers.
More questions--when you first started dating him, did you notice that he was very charming and charismatic? How does he feel about his illness? Does he ever blame anyone else for his actions? Just curious as there could be things beyond mental illness going on here, possibly, if you answer yes to any of those questions, and would want to rule that out first.
Best,
Garnet
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