Posted by LlurpsieBlossom on December 11, 2006, at 13:25:55
In reply to Re: Feeling snubberish, posted by ClearSkies on December 10, 2006, at 22:11:47
>> I just wish it didn't matter to me.
Some things are going to matter more than others. It's up to you to figure out why that is. When things bother you personally, is it justified? When something analogous happens to a friend, do you think SHE is justified in having it matter to her personally?
Also, "matter" is one thing "affect" is another thing and "upset" is another.
>> I'm going to have to put some limits on the time I spend here. I can't take it.
Go for it. you can't be everything and be yourself too.
>>I want everyone to like me and it isn't reasonable, likely, nor probable.
It's a reasonable wish, but not a reasonable expectation. I'm not sure if that makes any sense. Well, I guess you can't make everyone happy. Even if you DID, they still might not like you. And some people are just not ready to like you. Who knows why?
It must be hard to be so reasonable and so caring and get some random ill-will thrown your way. I just wanted to say that I think you are a great person. (even though you're a deputy *wink*).
I guess you'll just have to practice picking and choosing where to be and who to interact with, thereby minimizing your exposure to flying pigeon poo and other assaults on your lovely self.
>> I should have seen this coming.
pigeon poo is always surprising.
-Ll
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