Posted by DannaB on December 22, 2006, at 22:15:05
I have an incredible Pdoc. I truly admire, respect and trust him. He is very wise and has helped me a lot. We've worked together consistently for the past year and a half.
I always feel that I lack social skills, am unpopular and am always rejected. He seems to feel that I have social skills, am popular, and that the rejection is mostly in my head. Basically, we are coming to the conclusion that I "see" failure when it isn't there, and that often when there is a neutral or negative comment I take it to heart when I really shouldn't.
I think he may be onto something...I know I'm very sensitive...but I don't have a clue how to change this stinking thinking.
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