Posted by NikkiT2 on June 27, 2002, at 10:15:30
In reply to Thanks IsoM, kk, posted by homewood on June 27, 2002, at 9:22:53
While, like i say, I am committed to death do us part, I have only been married 2 1/2 years, so guess I;m still very much in the early days.. I have only infact been with my husband for 4 1/2 years so we're newbies to the whole concept!!
I was with my previous partner for 6 years and never had any feeling that I wanted to marry him, have his chidren, or even be with him forever. As soon as I met my husband I felt totally different and suddenly just wanted to be with him over everything else, this is why I married him.
But, who am I to know how I feel 10, 20 or 30 years down the line. I don;t see any point in marrying someone unless you want the death do us part thing, but I can also understand that the future can hold many different things that might make me feel different.
I don;t know how to answer your dilemma. Its very easy to sit here and say, if your arriage is making you feel so bad and depressed, leave it... but life isn't that simple.
I hope you find an answer that will help you
nikki
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