Posted by Tabitha on September 15, 2003, at 14:11:33
In reply to Re: Hopelessly missing him. Sebastion, posted by kara lynne on September 15, 2003, at 13:42:21
KL, this might just be a phase of the grief process. I went through a breakup recently, and there was an initial period where I was just glad to be rid of him, didn't miss him at all. Then I REALLY missed him for a while. Then I had a period where all I felt toward him was aversion, just kept dwelling on everything I didn't like about him, couldn't think of a nice thing about him. Now that's passing too.
My point is.. this period of intensely missing him might just change into something else. Hang in there. Your logical, adult judgement tells you you're better off without him. All the rest is just the temporary emotional storms that come with loss.
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