Posted by judy1 on December 18, 2003, at 10:53:57
In reply to A Mother's Unexpected Death, posted by kev423 on December 17, 2003, at 17:09:31
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Your Mom sounded like a wonderful, caring woman and you are so fortunate to have had the time you did with her. There's no timetable for grief, I lost my Mom as a teen- 20 years ago- and I still sometimes suddenly burst into tears at a memory. But mostly I carry her in my heart, and catch myself doing things or saying things to my kids- using the exact words she did. I think you'll probably do the same since you were so close- do you have similar gestures or sayings? That's what will keep her close to you. I know a lot of things are painful right now, but don't get rid of the reminders of her presence- put them out of your sight for a while, and then when the pain is less fresh, bring them back out. Talk to your friends about how much you miss her, and gradually you'll start to feel better. I wish you all the best- judy
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