Posted by ST on May 27, 2002, at 2:27:37
In reply to Re: Sexual harrassment/abuse/humour » Phil, posted by sid on May 21, 2002, at 22:47:13
Sid,
By the way, this is not "some little problem". People like your BOL are everywhere in the world. They ruin a lot of lives. They may have daughters and sons who grow up to be abusers. Yes, there are freaks out there who want to blow up buildings and blast us with nuclear weapons. Their actions affect thousands, even millions. It's a ripple effect. But when we try to make our own lives better, we make the world a better place to live. So someday, maybe there will be less pedophiles, less nuclear threat....I don't know. We can only start within our own circle, and if everyone does that, we CAN change the world.
Just had to say that. You must start believing in your own worth. You have no need to second guess yourself. People who witness what your BOL does in fron of them are in denial, they don't want to deal. The person next to them who sees it isn't shocked, so why should they be? His wife seems to laugh it off, so what's the problem? Deny, turn the head....
I hope you find a good therapist who can really challenge you and get you excited about yourself and what you deserve in your life.
Sarah
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