Posted by Deafmom on February 28, 2004, at 11:56:33
In reply to 10 Signs You've Got It Bad for Your T, posted by tinydancer on February 25, 2004, at 15:02:40
Boy, I was just thinking about how obsessed I am about my T and then I found this thread! Too scary! I couldn't help but it, but I felt kind of sad that this is something common. I don't know why. Maybe it made me feel not special??? Anyway, I am so obsessed with my T and just last week we had a conversation about my sexual attraction to him. He is such a great guy and he said some things that I think came out wrong. Like he said that he felt threatened and when I asked why he respnded, "you're only human. I'm only human. This is something that *could* happen." I think he meant that it's scary because human nature allows for mistakes and that this scenario isn't something that is impossible between two humans. It just gave me way too much hope at the time! LOL
One thing about him that's made me really love him is that he trusts me. That's helped me to trust him. He allows me to page him (or call on the cell if I want--but I'm deaf and that's too complicated usually) any time and sometimes if he hasn't heard from me for a few days he'll even e-mail me and tell me he was wondering if my week was going all right since he knew I was having a rough go. He shares information about himself with me and doesn't seem hesitant. He's hilarious. He e-mailed me once and was telling me about what he'd been doing that weekend. In session, when he's trying to emphasize that he has vulnerability just like all people, he will tell me about times that he made an ass out of himself or that he felt embarrassed. I just love him so much!!
poster:Deafmom
thread:317592
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20040225/msgs/318504.html