Posted by Dinah on February 29, 2004, at 8:54:07
In reply to Why am I wanting to push my T. away right now?, posted by KindGirl on February 28, 2004, at 22:08:02
I think it goes in cycles. I'm tending to want to push mine away right now too. He's suddenly seeming like all the other people in my life, my husband, my parents. Maybe even worse because I have a better idea of how to please them. It feels like he's being randomly angry and I don't know how to stop it. It may be a misperception on my part, but I just want to stay away from him and avoid the hassle. I can get that for free. I just have to visit my parents, or stay at home.
But I know that when I'm feeling really upset again, I'll turn to him and want to see him. Because that's what he's best at, calming me down.
Don't you find the same thing to be true of most of your relationships? At least the ones in which you have emotional engagement?
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