Posted by Kind Girl on March 5, 2004, at 8:21:07
In reply to Re: Do you have a picture of your T? » Apperceptor, posted by tinydancer on March 5, 2004, at 4:44:04
I found this thread very upsetting at first and then continued to read...yes I am still very shocked that one person's words could cut like a knife and almost destroy 2 years of trust building I have attempted with my T., and that was my reaction to the heated post above.
I AM a "kind girl" and do want to extend forgiveness and openness to learn new things so I am trying to "seek first to understand and then be understood" and not get personally offended.
I will say that I DO have pictures of my doctors with me....my obstetricians who delivered my babies (before delivery and on follow up visits, not just in the labor room) and they were DELIGHTED to take a picture with me. I have pictures of me with professors from college...and I have many pictures requested of me to take with my students....and I do not feel one bit awkward about any of it. Heck, I guess I am just a great person everyone wants a picture with! ha ha
Do I take pictures of my pharmacist or the checker at the grocery store? Naw...I give them a pass. But I do love and cherish the people in my life and give 100 percent to them and I like to remember them and think good things about them when I am not with them.
P.S. My therapist recommended taking a picture of her and then I brought in my camera and asked if I could be in it with her. She is not a narcissist (remember I was raised by 2) just a very sensitive and brilliant therapist.
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