Posted by Karen_kay on March 10, 2004, at 8:02:10
In reply to it's a new day, posted by toomuchpain on March 9, 2004, at 10:34:12
(((toomuchpain)))
Just know that it will get better every single day. And I notice the difference in your post. You sound more positive, which is a very good thing. It's rough that he reacted the way he did, but now you know not to go back to him for advice or to try to clear the air. Take it one day at a time. And find a therapist (not that I'm suggesting you leave your old one... OK, maybe I am) that will listen to you... That is what they get paid for. To listen, not invalidate and it sounds from your previous post that your new therapist is doing a good job of invalidating the hurt you feel from the experience. Find someone who will listen. And try someone outside the "center" or building, etc. That way, they won't be apt to "take sides" on the issue. That's my advice. You're doing a wonderful job right now, and you deserve to hear it from your therapist as well...
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